50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points Against Evil Anger Spirits Causing Family Conflicts
Prayer Title
50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points Against Evil Anger Spirits Causing Family Conflicts
Prayer Focus
This prayer focuses on deliverance from destructive anger, bitterness, resentment, uncontrolled reactions, unforgiveness, harsh speech, family tension, and every influence that continually produces division within the household.
The focus is to ask God for deliverance, self-control, forgiveness, wisdom, reconciliation, emotional healing, peaceful communication, and restoration of family unity.
Bible Exhortation
Anger itself can be a human emotion, but Scripture warns against allowing anger to become destructive, uncontrolled, or prolonged.
Ephesians 4:26–27 says:
“Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil.”
This teaches that anger must not be permitted to become a doorway to hatred, bitterness, revenge, abuse, or persistent family conflict.
Proverbs 15:1 teaches that a soft answer turns away wrath, while harsh words can intensify anger.
Therefore, spiritual warfare against family conflict should include prayer against destructive influences and a commitment to forgiveness, self-control, humility, healthy communication, and reconciliation.
God can transform a household from a place of constant arguments into a place of peace.
Prophetic Illustration
Imagine a small spark falling into a dry field.
The spark itself may be tiny, but if it is not extinguished quickly, it can become a devastating fire.
Family conflict can work in the same way.
A small misunderstanding can become an argument. An argument can become resentment. Resentment can become bitterness. Bitterness can produce separation and long-term hostility.
But just as water can extinguish a growing fire, prayer, humility, forgiveness, wisdom, self-control, and godly communication can stop destructive conflict before it consumes the household.
Therefore, we pray:
“Lord, extinguish every destructive fire of anger in my family and establish the peace of Christ in our hearts.”
Bible Texts
- Ephesians 4:26–27
- James 1:19–20
- Proverbs 15:1
- Proverbs 14:29
- Colossians 3:12–15
- Proverbs 16:32
- Galatians 5:22–23
- Psalm 133:1
- Matthew 5:9
- Romans 12:18
Bible Reading
James 1:19–20
“Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.”
Key Scripture
“The wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.” — James 1:20
Read this passage aloud and ask God to establish patience, self-control, wisdom, and peace throughout your household.
Confession
I belong to Jesus Christ.
My household belongs to God.
I reject destructive anger, bitterness, resentment, hatred, and unforgiveness.
I refuse to allow anger to control my words or actions.
I receive the fruit of the Spirit.
I receive patience.
I receive gentleness.
I receive self-control.
I receive wisdom in communication.
I receive grace to forgive.
I receive grace to apologize when I am wrong.
I receive grace to listen before responding.
My family shall not be ruled by uncontrolled anger.
Our home shall become a place of peace, love, understanding, and reconciliation.
The peace of Christ shall rule in our hearts.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
Spiritual Symptoms
The following can serve as prayer-reflection points, not automatic proof of a spiritual cause:
- Frequent arguments over minor issues.
- Persistent shouting within the household.
- Quick temper and impulsive reactions.
- Long-standing resentment.
- Repeated refusal to forgive.
- Harsh or insulting speech.
- Silent treatment used to punish others.
- Constant suspicion among family members.
- Repeated reopening of old offenses.
- Uncontrolled emotional reactions.
- Family members deliberately provoking one another.
- Persistent hostility between relatives.
- Difficulty apologizing after disagreements.
- Escalation of minor disagreements into major conflicts.
- Loss of peace within the home.
Prophetic Declaration
I declare that the peace of Christ shall rule in my family.
Every destructive cycle of anger shall be broken.
Every pattern of bitterness shall be uprooted.
Every spirit of unforgiveness shall lose its influence.
Every destructive argument shall be interrupted by wisdom.
Every harsh word shall give way to gracious speech.
Every family member shall receive self-control.
Every unresolved conflict shall receive grace for reconciliation.
The Lord shall restore love and understanding in our household.
We shall be slow to anger and quick to listen.
We shall forgive one another.
We shall communicate with wisdom.
Our home shall not be ruled by rage.
The peace of God shall rule in our household.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
Dos and Don’ts
Dos
- Do pray together as a family when appropriate.
- Do listen before responding.
- Do apologize when wrong.
- Do forgive genuine offenses.
- Do speak respectfully.
- Do establish healthy boundaries.
- Do address problems before resentment grows.
- Do seek wise counsel when conflicts become difficult.
- Do practice patience and self-control.
- Do prioritize reconciliation where it is safe and appropriate.
Don’ts
- Don’t use prayer as an excuse for abusive behavior.
- Don’t retaliate when angry.
- Don’t use insults or threats.
- Don’t deliberately provoke family members.
- Don’t keep a record of every past offense.
- Don’t use silent treatment as punishment.
- Don’t make major decisions while extremely angry.
- Don’t accuse family members without evidence.
- Don’t allow violence or intimidation in the household.
- Don’t neglect professional or pastoral help when serious conflict requires it.
Aggressive Praise & Worship
Shout:
“EVERY FIRE OF DESTRUCTIVE ANGER IN MY FAMILY, BE EXTINGUISHED!”
Shout again:
“THE PEACE OF CHRIST SHALL RULE IN MY HOUSE!”
Declare:
“MY FAMILY SHALL WALK IN LOVE, WISDOM, FORGIVENESS, AND SELF-CONTROL!”
Praise Points
- Father, I praise You because You are the Prince of Peace.
- I praise You because You can restore broken relationships.
- I praise You because Your grace is greater than our weaknesses.
- I praise You because You give wisdom to those who ask.
- I praise You because You can transform angry hearts.
- I praise You because Your Spirit produces self-control.
- I praise You because forgiveness is available through Christ.
- I praise You because You can restore peace to troubled households.
- I praise You because love is stronger than bitterness.
- I praise You because my family shall testify of Your restoring power.
Prayer Instructions
- Begin with thanksgiving and worship.
- Read James 1:19–20 aloud.
- Confess any personal contribution to family conflict.
- Ask God for forgiveness, wisdom, patience, and self-control.
- Pray against destructive anger and bitterness.
- Pray for healing of longstanding family wounds.
- Pray for wisdom in communication.
- Pray for grace to forgive and apologize.
- Pray for peaceful resolution of ongoing disagreements.
- Where there is abuse or immediate danger, prioritize physical safety and seek appropriate help.
- End with thanksgiving and the prophetic declaration.
50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points
Warfare Against Destructive Anger
1. O Lord my Father, arise and destroy every destructive cycle of anger operating within my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
2. Every pattern of uncontrolled rage causing repeated family conflict, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
3. Every influence pushing family members toward unnecessary anger, lose your power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
4. Father, establish the spirit of self-control in every member of my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
5. Every recurring anger-triggering pattern in my family, be exposed and brought under control, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
6. Every destructive reaction that continually turns small disagreements into major conflicts, come to an end, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
7. O Lord, remove every root of bitterness that continually fuels anger within my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8. Every cycle of shouting, insults, hostility, and rage in my family, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
9. Father, let Your peace overpower every atmosphere of anger in my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10. Every destructive anger pattern passed from one family relationship to another, end now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Warfare Against Bitterness and Unforgiveness
11. Every root of bitterness producing family division, be uprooted by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12. Every longstanding resentment poisoning relationships within my family, be removed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13. Father, give every member of my household grace to forgive genuine offenses, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14. Every cycle of repeatedly reopening old offenses, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15. Every desire for revenge operating within my household, be replaced with wisdom and forgiveness, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
16. O Lord, heal every emotional wound that continually produces anger and resentment in my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
17. Every unresolved offense creating division among relatives, receive grace for peaceful resolution, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
18. Father, give us humility to acknowledge our mistakes and sincerely apologize, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
19. Every wall of resentment separating family members, come down through forgiveness and reconciliation, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
20. O Lord, let love replace bitterness and understanding replace suspicion in my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Warfare Against Family Conflict
21. Every destructive pattern of constant arguments within my household, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
22. Every influence turning family members against one another, lose your power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
23. Father, establish peace in every troubled relationship within my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
24. Every disagreement that repeatedly escalates into hostility, be brought under the control of wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
25. Every harsh and destructive communication pattern within my household, be replaced with gracious speech, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
26. O Lord, teach every family member to be quick to listen and slow to speak, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
27. Every pattern of deliberate provocation between family members, come to an end, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
28. Father, give my household wisdom to resolve disagreements before they become destructive, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
29. Every conflict that has continued because of pride and stubbornness, receive divine intervention, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
30. O Lord, let the peace of Christ rule in every relationship within my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Warfare for Healing and Restoration
31. Father, heal every wounded heart within my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
32. Every emotional wound that continually triggers anger, receive divine healing, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
33. O Lord, restore trust where trust can safely and wisely be rebuilt, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
34. Every family relationship damaged by repeated anger, receive grace for restoration, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
35. Father, give us wisdom to discuss difficult matters without hatred, insults, or intimidation, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
36. Every pattern of refusing to communicate peacefully, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
37. O Lord, restore tenderness, compassion, patience, and understanding within my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
38. Every destructive family pattern that has continued for generations, be replaced with godly patterns of peace and self-control, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
39. Father, teach our family to correct one another with love and humility, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
40. O Lord, establish a new atmosphere of peace, respect, forgiveness, and reconciliation in my home, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Warfare for Family Unity
41. Every power working to divide my family through anger, resentment, and misunderstanding, lose your power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
42. Father, unite the hearts of family members in love, wisdom, truth, and mutual respect, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
43. Every destructive influence seeking to destroy marriages and family relationships, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
44. O Lord, protect the children in my household from destructive patterns of anger and conflict, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
45. Every pattern of emotional hostility affecting my family, be replaced with peace and healthy communication, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
46. Father, give every family member strength to control their words when emotions become intense, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
47. Every family conflict that has become a recurring cycle, be brought to an end through wisdom, repentance, forgiveness, and grace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
48. O Lord, let the fruit of the Spirit become increasingly evident in every member of my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
49. I declare that anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, hatred, and destructive conflict shall not rule my household; the peace of Christ shall rule in our hearts, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
50. O Lord my Father, deliver my family from every destructive pattern of anger and conflict, heal wounded hearts, establish self-control, restore peaceful communication, strengthen forgiveness and love, and make our household a testimony of Your peace and grace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Prophetic Warfare Declaration
I declare over my family:
Every destructive anger pattern is broken!
Every root of bitterness is uprooted!
Every cycle of unforgiveness is broken!
Every destructive argument is terminated!
Every pattern of harsh speech is broken!
Every spirit of hostility loses its influence!
Every destructive family pattern gives way to peace!
We receive patience.
We receive self-control.
We receive wisdom.
We receive compassion.
We receive forgiveness.
We receive humility.
We receive understanding.
We receive grace to communicate peacefully.
The peace of Christ shall rule in our hearts.
My family shall not be destroyed by anger.
My family shall not be divided by bitterness.
My family shall not be controlled by resentment.
We shall learn to listen.
We shall learn to forgive.
We shall learn to apologize.
We shall learn to communicate with wisdom.
Our household shall become a dwelling place of peace, love, wisdom, and reconciliation.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
Conclusion
Father, we thank You because You are the God of peace, restoration, forgiveness, and reconciliation.
We surrender every family relationship to You. Heal every wounded heart and expose every destructive pattern that continually produces anger, resentment, misunderstanding, and division.
Give every member of our household the grace to control their words, manage their emotions, listen carefully, forgive sincerely, apologize humbly, and communicate wisely.
Let the fire of destructive anger be extinguished.
Let bitterness give way to forgiveness.
Let resentment give way to healing.
Let hostility give way to peace.
Let confusion give way to understanding.
Let division give way to unity.
Where reconciliation is safe and appropriate, give us grace to pursue it. Where boundaries are necessary, give us wisdom to maintain them.
According to James 1:19–20, make us quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to wrath.
Every destructive anger cycle is broken. Every root of bitterness is uprooted. Every destructive conflict is brought under control. Peace is established in our household. Love is established in our household. Wisdom is established in our household. Self-control is established in our household.
The peace of Christ shall rule in our hearts and in our home.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.


