50 MFM Aggressive Prayer Points for Divine Strengthening of Marital Bond Against Every Satanic Attack on Marriage
1. Prayer Focus
Theme: Divine Strengthening of the Marital Bond Against Every Satanic Attack on Marriage
This prayer programme focuses on asking God to strengthen marriage through Christ-centered love, unity, faithfulness, communication, forgiveness, wisdom, patience, spiritual discernment, mutual respect, protection, and perseverance.
The warfare is directed against every spiritual influence, temptation, destructive pattern, deception, division, bitterness, and pressure that is contrary to God’s design for marriage—not against one’s spouse or any individual.
Key Scripture:
Ecclesiastes 4:12: “And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
A marriage centered on Christ can become spiritually stronger as husband and wife pray, communicate, forgive, serve, and walk in obedience to God’s Word.
2. Bible Exhortation
Marriage is a covenant designed by God.
Genesis 2:24 says:
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
The enemy seeks to exploit anything that can produce division—temptation, bitterness, unforgiveness, pride, financial pressure, poor communication, unhealthy boundaries, unresolved conflict, and spiritual neglect.
But Scripture gives believers weapons for standing firm.
Ephesians 6:11 says:
“Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.”
The answer is not suspicion of one another. The answer is to stand together in Christ.
Colossians 3:13–14 instructs believers to forgive one another and above all to put on love.
A strong marriage therefore requires prayer and practical obedience.
Pray together.
Forgive one another.
Speak truth in love.
Protect the marriage from inappropriate relationships.
Seek wise counsel when necessary.
Keep Christ at the center.
And refuse to allow temporary conflict to become permanent division.
3. Prophetic Illustration
Imagine two strong trees growing beside one another.
A storm may bend their branches, but their deep roots enable them to remain standing.
Likewise, marriage will encounter seasons of pressure.
There may be financial challenges, misunderstandings, demanding responsibilities, family pressures, disappointment, temptation, or seasons of emotional exhaustion.
The goal is not to pretend that storms do not exist.
The goal is to build roots deep enough in Christ that the marriage can withstand them.
When husband and wife pray, communicate, forgive, seek wisdom, and remain committed to righteousness, the marriage can become stronger through difficult seasons.
Declare:
“My marriage shall not be destroyed by temporary storms. Christ shall remain the foundation of our covenant. We shall grow in love, wisdom, faithfulness, unity, and spiritual strength.”
4. Bible Texts
- Genesis 2:18–24
- Joshua 24:15
- Psalm 127:1
- Psalm 133:1–3
- Proverbs 4:23
- Proverbs 15:1
- Ecclesiastes 4:9–12
- Malachi 2:14–16
- Matthew 19:4–6
- Mark 10:9
- John 13:34–35
- Romans 12:10
- 1 Corinthians 13:4–8
- Ephesians 4:2–3
- Ephesians 4:26–27
- Ephesians 5:21–33
- Philippians 2:3–4
- Colossians 3:12–15
- 1 Peter 3:7
- James 4:7
5. Bible Reading
Primary Bible Reading: Ephesians 5:21–33
Read this passage slowly and prayerfully.
Pay particular attention to the call to:
- Mutual submission to Christ.
- Sacrificial love.
- Respect.
- Faithfulness.
- Selflessness.
- Covenant responsibility.
Additional Bible Reading
Ecclesiastes 4:9–12
“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”
Colossians 3:12–15
“And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.”
1 Corinthians 13:4–7
Read this passage as a personal examination of how love should operate within the marriage.
Psalm 133:1
“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!”
6. Marital Confession
Declare together:
Jesus Christ is the foundation of our marriage.
Our marriage belongs to God.
We reject hatred.
We reject bitterness.
We reject unforgiveness.
We reject adultery.
We reject emotional infidelity.
We reject destructive secrecy.
We reject manipulation.
We reject contempt.
We reject pride.
We reject unnecessary suspicion.
We reject destructive communication.
We reject every influence that seeks to divide our covenant.
We receive grace to love.
We receive grace to forgive.
We receive grace to communicate.
We receive grace to listen.
We receive grace to understand one another.
We receive grace to remain faithful.
We receive wisdom for our marriage.
We receive strength for difficult seasons.
We receive discernment concerning harmful influences.
Our marriage shall grow stronger in Christ.
Our home shall become a place of peace.
Our communication shall improve.
Our friendship shall deepen.
Our intimacy shall be protected and strengthened within the covenant of marriage.
Our family shall serve God together.
We shall not allow temporary conflicts to become permanent division.
We shall pursue reconciliation where reconciliation is appropriate.
We shall seek wise help when necessary.
Christ shall remain at the center of our marriage.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
7. Spiritual Symptoms to Pray Against
These are relational and spiritual warning signs for prayer, reflection, and appropriate intervention:
- Persistent bitterness between spouses.
- Constant unresolved arguments.
- Refusal to communicate.
- Persistent contempt.
- Emotional withdrawal.
- Loss of friendship within the marriage.
- Repeated unforgiveness.
- Destructive suspicion.
- Secretive behavior.
- Emotional dependence on inappropriate third parties.
- Temptation toward infidelity.
- Persistent financial conflict.
- Lack of prayer together.
- Spiritual neglect.
- Constant criticism.
- Refusal to apologize.
- Pride during disagreements.
- Family members being unnecessarily drawn into marital conflicts.
- Persistent resentment.
- Loss of affection and mutual respect.
If there is abuse, coercion, violence, or immediate danger in a marriage, prayer should not replace appropriate safety measures, professional help, or lawful intervention.
8. Prophetic Declaration
By faith, declare:
Christ is the foundation of our marriage.
Our covenant shall be strengthened.
Our love shall mature.
Our friendship shall deepen.
Our communication shall improve.
Our respect for one another shall increase.
Our faithfulness shall remain strong.
Every destructive influence against our marriage shall be resisted.
Every seed of bitterness shall be uprooted.
Every root of unforgiveness shall be confronted.
Every temptation toward unfaithfulness shall be rejected.
Every destructive pattern of communication shall be broken.
Every unnecessary division shall give way to wisdom and reconciliation.
The Holy Spirit shall give us discernment.
The Lord shall teach us how to love one another well.
Our home shall become a place of peace.
Our children shall witness healthy love, wisdom, and godly character.
Our marriage shall not be destroyed by pressure.
Our marriage shall grow stronger through every legitimate trial.
We shall seek God together.
We shall forgive one another.
We shall protect our covenant.
We shall finish our marital journey faithfully.
Jesus Christ shall be glorified through our home.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
9. Dos and Don’ts
Do
- Pray together.
- Pray for one another.
- Communicate honestly.
- Listen before responding.
- Forgive genuine offenses.
- Apologize when wrong.
- Protect marital boundaries.
- Be transparent about important matters.
- Spend quality time together.
- Encourage one another.
- Maintain healthy affection.
- Seek wise counsel when necessary.
- Address problems early.
- Study Scripture together.
- Give thanks for one another.
Don’t
- Do not use warfare prayer against your spouse.
- Do not label your spouse as the enemy.
- Do not accuse without evidence.
- Do not use Scripture to manipulate your spouse.
- Do not use spiritual authority to control your spouse.
- Do not deliberately humiliate one another.
- Do not entertain inappropriate emotional relationships.
- Do not allow outsiders unnecessary access to private marital matters.
- Do not use children as weapons during conflict.
- Do not ignore serious problems.
- Do not confuse forgiveness with enabling abuse.
- Do not hide dangerous or destructive behavior under the language of “faith.”
- Do not refuse appropriate counseling.
- Do not allow pride to prevent reconciliation.
10. Aggressive Praise & Worship
Begin with energetic praise.
Praise Declarations
Leader: Who is the foundation of our marriage?
Family: Jesus Christ!
Leader: Who gives us strength?
Family: The Lord!
Leader: Who gives us wisdom?
Family: The Holy Spirit!
Leader: Who is greater than every attack against our household?
Family: Jesus Christ!
Shout:
“JESUS CHRIST IS LORD OVER OUR MARRIAGE!”
“OUR MARRIAGE SHALL STAND!”
“OUR HOME SHALL BE A HOUSE OF PEACE!”
“EVERY DESTRUCTIVE INFLUENCE MUST GIVE WAY TO THE LORDSHIP OF CHRIST!”
“HALLELUJAH!”
Praise Scriptures
Read aloud:
- Psalm 23
- Psalm 27
- Psalm 46
- Psalm 91
- Psalm 100
- Psalm 133
- Psalm 150
Praise God for:
- Your spouse.
- Your covenant.
- Previous seasons God has brought you through.
- The gift of family.
- God’s forgiveness.
- God’s patience.
- God’s protection.
- God’s provision.
- Every answered prayer.
- Every opportunity to grow together.
Dance before the Lord.
Clap your hands.
Lift your voice.
End the praise session by praying:
“Lord, be glorified in our marriage.”
11. Prayer Instructions
- Begin with thanksgiving.
- Confess personal sins and ask God for forgiveness.
- Read Ephesians 5:21–33.
- Read 1 Corinthians 13:4–7.
- Ask God to reveal areas requiring growth.
- Pray the 50 prayer points with spiritual intensity.
- Pray for both spouses individually.
- Pray against temptation, bitterness, division, and destructive influences.
- Pray for communication, friendship, faithfulness, and intimacy.
- Pray for wisdom concerning finances and extended-family boundaries.
- Resist spiritual opposition without directing hatred toward people.
- If there are serious marital problems, seek appropriate pastoral, professional, legal, or safety support.
- End with thanksgiving.
- Bless your spouse rather than cursing or condemning them.
12. 50 MFM Aggressive Prayer Points
1.
O Lord, arise and strengthen the covenant of my marriage by Your mighty power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
2.
Every satanic influence assigned to weaken the marital bond, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
3.
Father, establish Jesus Christ as the permanent foundation of our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
4.
Every power assigned to drive a wedge between husband and wife, lose your hold, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
5.
O Lord, fill our marriage with divine love, patience, humility, and understanding, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
6.
Every root of bitterness operating against our marital peace, be uprooted, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
7.
Every seed of unforgiveness producing division in our home, be destroyed through the grace of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8.
Father, give us grace to forgive one another genuinely and walk forward in wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
9.
Every power assigned to turn small disagreements into destructive conflicts, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10.
O Lord, teach us to communicate with wisdom, gentleness, truth, and love, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
11.
Every satanic attack against marital friendship and companionship, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12.
Father, restore genuine friendship, laughter, affection, and healthy companionship between us, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13.
Every power assigned to introduce emotional distance into our marriage, lose your hold, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14.
O Lord, restore emotional closeness and healthy understanding between husband and wife, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15.
Every temptation toward adultery and marital unfaithfulness, be resisted and defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
16.
Father, establish strong marital boundaries that protect our covenant from inappropriate relationships, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
17.
Every destructive emotional attachment outside the marriage, be broken and replaced with healthy, righteous boundaries, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
18.
O Lord, give us wisdom to flee every temptation that threatens our covenant, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
19.
Every power assigned to use financial pressure to create marital division, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
20.
Father, give us wisdom, discipline, transparency, and unity in managing family finances, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
21.
Every spirit of pride preventing either spouse from admitting wrong, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
22.
O Lord, give us humility to apologize sincerely whenever we offend one another, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
23.
Every power assigned to make our hearts hard toward one another, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
24.
Father, give us tender hearts that are willing to listen, understand, forgive, and reconcile, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
25.
Every satanic influence seeking to destroy our marital intimacy, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
26.
O Lord, strengthen healthy affection, trust, tenderness, and intimacy within our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
27.
Every power assigned to use extended-family pressure to create unnecessary division in our marriage, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
28.
Father, give us wisdom and healthy boundaries concerning relatives, friends, and outside influences, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
29.
Every voice of destructive counsel speaking against our covenant, be silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
30.
O Lord, surround our marriage with wise, mature, trustworthy, and godly counsel, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
31.
Every power assigned to make us fight one another instead of confronting the real problems before us, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
32.
Father, teach us to face challenges together with wisdom, courage, prayer, and mutual respect, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
33.
Every seed of suspicion that has no legitimate basis, be uprooted from our hearts, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
34.
O Lord, establish truth, transparency, trust, and healthy communication within our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
35.
Every power assigned to weaken our family prayer altar, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
36.
Holy Spirit, revive our desire to pray, study Scripture, worship, and seek God together, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
37.
Every satanic strategy designed to make our marriage spiritually cold, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
38.
Father, let the fire of love for Christ burn continually within our household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
39.
Every power assigned to destroy our peace through constant conflict, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
40.
O Lord, establish peace, patience, wisdom, and self-control within our home, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
41.
Every destructive pattern inherited from previous generations that affects our marital relationship, be broken through Christ-centered repentance, wisdom, and obedience, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
42.
Father, help us establish a healthier marital culture than the negative patterns we may have inherited, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
43.
Every power assigned to make our children witnesses of destructive marital conflict, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
44.
O Lord, make our home an environment where our children learn love, respect, forgiveness, faith, responsibility, and wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
45.
Every satanic attack against the future of our marriage, be defeated by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
46.
Father, strengthen us to remain faithful to one another through seasons of pressure, transition, disappointment, and uncertainty, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
47.
Every power assigned to make temporary marital difficulties become permanent separation, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
48.
O Lord, restore every area of our marriage that has been weakened, neglected, or damaged, according to Your will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
49.
Father, establish our marriage in love, faithfulness, unity, friendship, wisdom, spiritual strength, and mutual respect, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
50.
O Lord, arise and build, preserve, strengthen, and establish our marriage; let every destructive spiritual influence, temptation, division, bitterness, and pressure contrary to Your will be overcome, and let our covenant become a testimony of Your grace and faithfulness, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13. Thanksgiving and Marital Sealing Prayer
Father, we thank You for the gift of marriage.
Thank You for my spouse.
Thank You for every season we have survived together.
Thank You for every lesson.
Thank You for every victory.
Thank You for every answered prayer.
Thank You for every opportunity to grow.
Thank You for Your mercy.
Thank You for Your patience.
Thank You for Your forgiveness.
We surrender our marriage completely to You.
Be the center of our covenant.
Teach us to love one another.
Teach us to listen.
Teach us to forgive.
Teach us to communicate.
Teach us to serve.
Teach us to sacrifice.
Teach us to respect one another.
Teach us to protect our marital boundaries.
Deliver us from pride.
Deliver us from bitterness.
Deliver us from destructive suspicion.
Deliver us from temptation.
Deliver us from emotional infidelity.
Deliver us from destructive communication.
Deliver us from unhealthy outside influences.
Give us wisdom concerning finances.
Give us wisdom concerning relatives.
Give us wisdom concerning friendships.
Give us wisdom concerning parenting.
Strengthen our friendship.
Strengthen our intimacy.
Strengthen our spiritual life.
Strengthen our family prayer altar.
Let our home become a place of peace.
Let our marriage become a testimony of Your grace.
Let our children see Christlike love in our relationship.
Let our marriage grow stronger through every legitimate challenge.
Where there has been hurt, bring healing.
Where there has been distance, bring healthy reconciliation.
Where there has been misunderstanding, bring clarity.
Where there has been weakness, bring strength.
Where there has been temptation, give us escape and wisdom.
Where there has been pride, give us humility.
Where there has been bitterness, give us grace to forgive.
Let no destructive influence have the final word over our covenant.
Jesus Christ shall remain Lord over our home.
We bless our marriage.
We bless our spouse.
We bless our children.
We bless our household.
May our home bring glory to Your name.
In the mighty name of Jesus, Amen.
14. Conclusion
Marriage is a covenant that requires continual investment.
Prayer is essential.
But prayer must be accompanied by love, communication, forgiveness, faithfulness, accountability, wisdom, and responsible action.
Do not treat your spouse as the enemy.
Do not allow spiritual warfare language to become an excuse for accusation or hostility.
Stand together against the real destructive influences.
Pray together.
Talk together.
Forgive one another.
Set healthy boundaries.
Seek help when necessary.
Keep Christ at the center.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 says:
“A threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
When husband and wife deliberately build their relationship around Jesus Christ, they can face difficult seasons with greater spiritual and relational strength.
Final Marital Declaration
Jesus Christ is the foundation of our marriage.
Our covenant shall be strengthened.
Our love shall increase.
Our friendship shall deepen.
Our communication shall improve.
Our trust shall grow.
Our faithfulness shall remain strong.
Our home shall be filled with peace.
We reject bitterness.
We reject unforgiveness.
We reject adultery.
We reject emotional infidelity.
We reject destructive communication.
We reject pride.
We reject manipulation.
We reject every influence that seeks to divide what God has joined together.
We shall forgive.
We shall communicate.
We shall listen.
We shall serve one another.
We shall protect our covenant.
We shall seek godly wisdom.
We shall pray together.
We shall grow together.
We shall overcome legitimate challenges together.
Our marriage shall not be destroyed by temporary storms.
Our family shall not be governed by fear.
Our children shall witness the fruit of Christ-centered love.
Our home shall become a testimony of God’s faithfulness.
Christ shall be glorified through our marriage.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
