50 MFM WARFARE PRAYER POINTS AGAINST HARSH WORDS THAT DESTROY MARRIAGES AND FAMILIES
1. PRAYER FOCUS
Prayer Focus: To destroy every satanic influence behind harsh, destructive, insulting, abusive, angry, and careless words that create wounds, hatred, resentment, separation, and destruction in marriages and families, and to establish grace for godly speech, self-control, wisdom, forgiveness, peace, and words that build rather than destroy.
This prayer is targeted against every power using the tongue as a weapon to attack marital peace, parental relationships, sibling relationships, family unity, trust, affection, and emotional stability.
2. BIBLE EXHORTATION
Words carry tremendous power. Scripture declares in Proverbs 18:21 that death and life are in the power of the tongue. A careless word can create a wound that lasts for years, while a gracious word can restore peace and healing.
The enemy often uses anger, frustration, pride, bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness to provoke people into saying words that destroy relationships.
Proverbs 15:1 teaches that a soft answer turns away wrath, while grievous words stir up anger.
Ephesians 4:29 commands believers to let no corrupt communication proceed from their mouths, but to speak what will edify and minister grace.
Marriage and family relationships must not become battlegrounds where people continually injure one another with their tongues. Every tongue being manipulated by demonic influence must be brought under the authority of the Holy Spirit.
Today, every satanic pattern of destructive speech operating in the marriage and family shall be broken. Every tongue being used as an instrument of destruction shall be brought under divine control, and the Lord shall establish words of grace, wisdom, love, correction, encouragement, and peace.
3. PROPHETIC ILLUSTRATION
A small spark can ignite a large forest fire.
Likewise, one harsh statement spoken in anger can ignite a major family conflict. One insulting word can reopen an old wound. One accusation can create suspicion. One careless statement can destroy years of trust.
But the same tongue that has been used to destroy can become an instrument of healing.
Prophetically, every satanic fire ignited through harsh words in your marriage and family shall be quenched by the blood of Jesus.
Every destructive word spoken against marital peace shall lose its power.
Every word that has produced hatred, rejection, separation, bitterness, or confusion shall be overturned by the authority of God’s Word.
The tongue of every member of the family shall become an instrument of life, healing, wisdom, peace, and restoration.
4. BIBLE TEXTS
- Proverbs 18:21
- Proverbs 15:1
- Proverbs 12:18
- Proverbs 16:24
- Proverbs 21:23
- Proverbs 25:11
- Proverbs 29:11
- Ecclesiastes 5:2
- Matthew 12:36-37
- Ephesians 4:29
- Ephesians 4:31-32
- Colossians 3:8-9
- Colossians 4:6
- James 1:19-20
- James 3:2-10
- 1 Peter 3:8-10
5. BIBLE READING
Proverbs 15:1
“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”
Proverbs 18:21
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue…”
Ephesians 4:29
“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying…”
James 3:5-6
James warns about the destructive potential of the tongue. Though small, the tongue can create enormous damage when it is not controlled.
Therefore, every family must consciously surrender its speech to God. Words must be seasoned with grace, truth, wisdom, love, and self-control.
6. CONFESSION
I confess that Jesus Christ is Lord over my tongue, my marriage, my children, and my entire family.
I reject every satanic influence controlling speech in my household.
I reject anger, rage, bitterness, insults, curses, accusations, mockery, contempt, threats, and destructive communication.
My tongue shall not become an instrument of Satan.
My mouth shall speak life.
My mouth shall speak wisdom.
My mouth shall speak grace.
My mouth shall speak peace.
My words shall build and not destroy.
Every destructive word spoken in my family shall lose its satanic power.
Every evil word spoken against my marriage shall fall to the ground.
Every curse released through anger shall be cancelled by the blood of Jesus.
Every word of rejection spoken against children shall be overturned.
Every word of separation spoken against the marriage shall be nullified.
My family shall be governed by love, wisdom, patience, forgiveness, understanding, and peace.
The Holy Spirit shall control our tongues.
Our words shall glorify God.
Our home shall be filled with words of life.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
7. SPIRITUAL SYMPTOMS
Watch and pray against:
- Constant shouting between spouses.
- Frequent insults during disagreements.
- Calling one another degrading names.
- Using past mistakes as weapons.
- Threatening divorce during every argument.
- Cursing one’s spouse or children.
- Speaking negatively about one’s spouse before the children.
- Mocking family members.
- Constant criticism.
- Sarcasm intended to wound.
- Deliberately provoking anger.
- Silent treatment combined with hostility.
- Public humiliation of one’s spouse.
- Speaking evil about family members to outsiders.
- Constant accusations without evidence.
- Using money as a weapon during arguments.
- Children copying aggressive speech from parents.
- Refusal to apologize after hurtful speech.
- Repeating the same painful words over and over.
- A home where people are afraid to communicate honestly.
These patterns should be confronted with prayer, repentance, wisdom, self-control, godly communication, forgiveness, and appropriate practical intervention where necessary.
8. PROPHETIC DECLARATION
I decree that every satanic power using harsh words to destroy my marriage and family shall be destroyed.
Every evil tongue speaking destruction against my household shall be silenced.
Every curse spoken in anger shall be cancelled.
Every word of rejection shall lose its power.
Every word of separation shall be overturned.
Every word of hatred shall be neutralized.
Every word of death shall be swallowed up by the life of Christ.
Every satanic conversation designed to destroy marital peace shall collapse.
The Lord shall place a watch over every tongue in my household.
Our mouths shall become fountains of life.
Our conversations shall become channels of peace.
Our words shall strengthen marriages.
Our words shall encourage children.
Our words shall restore broken hearts.
Our words shall build unity.
Our words shall carry grace.
The Holy Spirit shall control our speech.
No destructive pattern of communication shall destroy our family.
Our marriage shall stand.
Our family shall stand.
The peace of God shall reign in our household.
In the name of Jesus.
9. DOS AND DON’TS
Dos
- Pray before responding when angry.
- Listen carefully before answering.
- Speak truth with love.
- Correct privately and respectfully.
- Apologize when you are wrong.
- Forgive genuine offenses.
- Encourage your spouse and children.
- Speak blessings over your household.
- Teach children godly communication.
- Take difficult conversations to God in prayer.
- Use gentle words during disagreements.
- Seek wise counsel when necessary.
Don’ts
- Don’t use insults against your spouse.
- Don’t curse your children.
- Don’t threaten divorce casually.
- Don’t use someone’s past failure as a weapon.
- Don’t humiliate your spouse publicly.
- Don’t scream merely to dominate an argument.
- Don’t speak death over your family.
- Don’t compare your spouse with other people.
- Don’t weaponize personal secrets.
- Don’t deliberately provoke anger.
- Don’t gossip about family conflicts.
- Don’t allow anger to control your tongue.
10. AGGRESSIVE PRAISE & WORSHIP
Begin with vigorous praise and worship.
- Praise Jesus as Lord over your marriage and family.
- Thank God for every family member.
- Sing songs celebrating God’s power to restore broken relationships.
- Worship God for His power over every destructive tongue.
- Praise Him for healing wounded hearts.
- Declare Psalm 133 over your household.
- Praise God for the victory over anger and bitterness.
- Worship God for giving the family the tongue of wisdom.
- Dance before the Lord as a prophetic sign of restored marital peace.
- Lift your voice and declare that the enemy shall not destroy your home through words.
Aggressive Praise Declarations
Every satanic tongue assigned against my marriage, be silenced by fire, in the name of Jesus!
Every evil word speaking destruction into my family, expire now, in the name of Jesus!
Holy Ghost fire, purge every destructive tongue in my household, in the name of Jesus!
O Lord, turn every weapon of the tongue against the enemy’s agenda, in the name of Jesus!
Let the peace of God swallow every fire of anger in my family, in the name of Jesus!
11. PRAYER INSTRUCTIONS
- Begin with worship and thanksgiving.
- Read Proverbs 15, Proverbs 18, and James 3.
- Repent for every destructive word personally spoken.
- Ask God to cleanse your heart from bitterness and anger.
- Pray aggressively against satanic manipulation of the tongue.
- Pray specifically against insults, curses, threats, accusations, and destructive speech.
- Pray for your spouse and children by name.
- Cancel every destructive word previously spoken against the family.
- Declare God’s Word over your marriage and household.
- End by thanking God for peace, healing, wisdom, and lasting family unity.
12. 50 MFM WARFARE PRAYER POINTS
1.
O Lord, arise and destroy every satanic power using harsh words to destroy my marriage and family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
2.
Every demonic power controlling the tongue of anyone in my household for destruction, be broken by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
3.
Every evil tongue assigned to create hatred between husband and wife, be silenced now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
4.
Every satanic fire ignited through angry words in my family, be quenched by the blood of Jesus, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
5.
Every power turning small disagreements into destructive verbal battles, die by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
6.
Every spirit of rage manipulating the speech of family members, come out and perish, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
7.
Every demonic power making family members speak curses against one another, lose your hold now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8.
Every satanic tongue speaking separation into my marriage, catch fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
9.
Every word of divorce, abandonment, rejection, and separation spoken against my marriage, be cancelled by the blood of Jesus, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10.
Every evil word spoken against the destiny of my children, be reversed by divine power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
11.
Every word of death spoken against any member of my family, I cancel you by the blood of Jesus, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12.
Every curse released through uncontrolled anger in my family, return to the sender and lose your power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13.
Every spirit of insult and verbal abuse operating in my household, be uprooted by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14.
Every demonic power making spouses despise one another, be destroyed now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15.
Every satanic force turning marital conversations into battlegrounds, be scattered by thunder, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
16.
Every power causing family members to deliberately provoke one another, be rendered powerless, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
17.
Every ancestral pattern of destructive speech operating in my bloodline, break by the power in the blood of Jesus, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
18.
Every generational pattern of cursing, shouting, insults, and verbal hostility, terminate now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
19.
Every evil tongue that continually reopens old wounds in my family, be silenced by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
20.
Every power using past mistakes as weapons against my marriage, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
21.
O Lord, put a divine watch over every mouth in my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
22.
Every power making family members speak before thinking, lose your power now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
23.
Every spirit of bitterness producing poisonous words in my family, die by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
24.
Every satanic power turning frustration into marital hostility, be consumed by Holy Ghost fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
25.
Every power causing spouses to attack one another with personal weaknesses, be destroyed now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
26.
Every evil voice telling my spouse or children that they are worthless, be silenced permanently, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
27.
Every word of rejection spoken against my children, be overturned by the Word of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
28.
Every satanic power causing children to inherit destructive communication patterns, be broken now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
29.
Every evil pattern of public humiliation within my family, catch fire and die, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
30.
Every spirit of accusation, suspicion, and condemnation destroying trust in my marriage, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
31.
Every satanic power using gossip to destroy relationships among family members, be disgraced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
32.
Every evil messenger carrying destructive words from one family member to another, be exposed and stopped, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
33.
Every demonic power causing spouses to threaten one another with separation during disagreements, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
34.
Every spirit of pride preventing family members from apologizing after hurtful words, die now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
35.
O Lord, baptize every member of my family with the spirit of patience and self-control, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
36.
Every power making soft words difficult and harsh words easy in my household, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
37.
Every satanic influence turning correction into humiliation, be uprooted completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
38.
Every spirit of anger that rises whenever family members disagree, receive the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
39.
Every satanic power making my family members remember hurtful words continually, lose your hold, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
40.
O Lord, heal every emotional wound caused by destructive words in my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
41.
Every evil word that has planted fear, insecurity, rejection, or hopelessness in my household, be uprooted by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
42.
Every satanic power using financial pressure to provoke destructive speech in my marriage, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
43.
Every evil tongue speaking against marital love, peace, intimacy, and unity, be silenced by the blood of Jesus, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
44.
Every power turning family disagreements into prolonged hatred, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
45.
I command every evil pattern of shouting and uncontrolled anger in my family to expire permanently, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
46.
O Lord, let the tongue of wisdom and kindness be established in every member of my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
47.
Every satanic agenda to destroy my marriage through words shall fail completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
48.
I decree that every mouth in my household shall speak life, healing, encouragement, wisdom, love, and peace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
49.
Father, let every wound created by harsh words receive divine healing, and let every damaged relationship receive supernatural restoration, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
50.
O Lord, establish Your fire of love, peace, wisdom, patience, forgiveness, and self-control in my marriage and family; let no satanic power use our tongues to destroy what You have built, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13. FINAL PROPHETIC DECLARATIONS
I decree that my tongue shall not destroy my marriage.
My spouse shall not become the victim of destructive speech.
My children shall not become victims of poisonous words.
Every satanic programming of harsh speech shall be erased.
Every inherited pattern of verbal destruction shall end in my generation.
Every curse spoken in anger shall lose its power.
Every word of death shall be cancelled.
Every word of rejection shall be overturned.
Every word of separation shall fail.
Every word of hatred shall be swallowed by divine love.
The Lord shall put a guard over our mouths.
Our tongues shall speak wisdom.
Our mouths shall speak grace.
Our conversations shall produce peace.
Our corrections shall produce growth.
Our disagreements shall not destroy our relationships.
Our marriages shall not collapse because of words.
Our children shall grow in an atmosphere of love and godly communication.
Every wounded heart shall receive healing.
Every broken relationship shall receive restoration.
Every destructive communication pattern shall be terminated.
The Holy Ghost shall rule our hearts and our tongues.
The blood of Jesus shall preserve our marriage and family.
Our home shall be a habitation of peace.
Our marriage shall flourish.
Our family shall remain united.
No weapon fashioned through the tongue against our household shall prosper.
The counsel of God concerning our marriage and family shall stand.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
14. CONCLUSION
Father, we thank You because You are the God of restoration, peace, wisdom, and reconciliation.
We surrender our tongues, hearts, marriages, children, and entire families to You. Destroy every satanic influence that has turned words into weapons of destruction.
Every harsh word that has produced wounds, remove its power.
Every curse spoken in anger, cancel it.
Every word of rejection, erase its effect.
Every word of separation, overturn it.
Every destructive communication pattern, break it.
Heal every wounded heart.
Restore every damaged relationship.
Teach every member of the family to speak with wisdom, grace, patience, love, and self-control.
Let husbands and wives receive grace to communicate without destroying one another.
Let parents speak words that build their children rather than words that crush their confidence.
Let children learn to honor their parents and communicate respectfully.
Let siblings refuse the spirit of rivalry, hatred, and destructive speech.
Let every household become a place where words bring healing rather than wounds.
According to Your Word, let our speech be seasoned with grace.
Let the power of the Holy Spirit govern every conversation.
Let love prevail over anger.
Let forgiveness prevail over bitterness.
Let wisdom prevail over foolish speech.
Let peace prevail over conflict.
Let life prevail over every word of death.
We decree that Satan shall not destroy our marriages and families through our tongues.
Our homes shall stand.
Our marriages shall stand.
Our families shall stand.
The Word of God shall stand in our households.
The blood of Jesus shall speak for us.
The Holy Spirit shall rule over us.
And the name of Jesus shall be glorified in our marriages and families.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
