50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points for Supernatural Restoration of Love and Attraction Between Spouses
Prayer Focus
This prayer session focuses on restoring marital love, affection, friendship, emotional closeness, mutual appreciation, healthy attraction, tenderness, companionship, and covenant commitment between spouses.
The prayers confront destructive patterns such as emotional distance, unresolved resentment, harsh communication, neglect, unforgiveness, comparison, persistent conflict, selfishness, unhealthy outside interference, and anything that has weakened the bond between husband and wife.
The emphasis is on restoration through God’s grace, repentance where necessary, healthy communication, mutual respect, emotional healing, appropriate marital affection, and renewed commitment to the covenant.
Bible Exhortation
Marriage is intended to be a covenant of companionship, love, faithfulness, and mutual care.
Genesis 2:24 declares:
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
God’s design is not for spouses to live as strangers under the same roof. Healthy marriage requires intentional investment in friendship, affection, communication, forgiveness, and mutual honor.
1 Corinthians 13:4–7 reminds us that genuine love is patient, kind, enduring, and not selfish.
When love has become weak, restoration often begins with humble hearts willing to listen, repent, forgive, communicate, and rebuild trust.
May the Lord restore whatever has been damaged, heal legitimate emotional wounds, remove destructive patterns, and renew healthy affection and companionship between spouses.
Prophetic Illustration
A garden that has been neglected may appear dry and lifeless, but when it is properly watered, cultivated, protected, and cared for, life can return.
Marriage can experience similar seasons.
Affection may weaken when couples become overwhelmed by responsibilities, unresolved conflicts, disappointment, or emotional distance. But with intentional care, honest communication, forgiveness, prayer, and God’s grace, the relationship can be cultivated again.
Prophetically, every legitimate seed of love, friendship, affection, and companionship that has been neglected shall receive renewed nourishment and opportunity to flourish.
Bible Texts
- Genesis 2:18–24
- Proverbs 5:18–19
- Song of Solomon 2:10–13
- Song of Solomon 8:6–7
- Ecclesiastes 4:9–12
- Malachi 2:14–16
- Matthew 19:4–6
- Romans 12:9–10
- 1 Corinthians 7:3–5
- 1 Corinthians 13:4–7
- Ephesians 4:1–3
- Ephesians 4:31–32
- Ephesians 5:21–33
- Philippians 2:3–4
- Colossians 3:12–15
- 1 Peter 3:7
- 1 Peter 4:8
- Hebrews 13:4
Bible Reading
Song of Solomon 8:6–7
“Set me as a seal upon thine heart… for love is strong as death.”
“Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it.”
1 Corinthians 13:4–7
“Charity suffereth long, and is kind…”
“Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked.”
Ephesians 4:31–32
“Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger… be put away from you.”
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another.”
Confession
I confess that marriage is a covenant established by God.
I receive grace to love my spouse with patience and kindness.
I reject bitterness.
I reject selfishness.
I reject unforgiveness.
I reject destructive communication.
I reject emotional neglect.
I reject unhealthy comparison.
I reject every pattern that damages marital friendship.
I receive grace to forgive.
I receive grace to communicate.
I receive grace to appreciate my spouse.
I receive grace to show appropriate affection.
I receive grace to rebuild trust.
My spouse and I shall grow closer in healthy and godly ways.
Our friendship shall be restored.
Our affection shall be renewed.
Our companionship shall increase.
Our covenant commitment shall become stronger.
Our marriage shall glorify God.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Spiritual Symptoms
Pay attention when you notice:
- Persistent emotional distance between spouses.
- Little or no affectionate communication.
- Loss of friendship.
- Constant criticism.
- Frequent unresolved arguments.
- Persistent resentment.
- Refusal to forgive.
- Emotional withdrawal.
- Lack of quality time.
- Constant comparison with other couples.
- Little appreciation.
- Habitual neglect.
- Loss of laughter and companionship.
- Avoidance of meaningful conversations.
- Persistent suspicion.
- Growing indifference.
- Unresolved relational wounds.
- Lack of prayer together.
- Increasing reliance on outside emotional relationships.
- Feeling more like roommates than spouses.
Prophetic Declaration
I decree that healthy love, friendship, affection, and companionship shall be restored in my marriage!
Every destructive pattern weakening our relationship is broken.
Every root of bitterness is uprooted.
Every pattern of emotional neglect is terminated.
Every spirit of unnecessary division is defeated.
Our communication shall improve.
Our friendship shall return.
Our appreciation for one another shall increase.
Our appropriate marital affection shall be renewed.
Our trust shall be strengthened through truthful and consistent actions.
Our laughter shall return.
Our companionship shall deepen.
Our commitment shall become stronger.
No legitimate challenge shall destroy the covenant of our marriage.
The Lord shall teach us how to love one another better.
Our marriage shall become healthier.
Our home shall become warmer.
Our relationship shall become a testimony of God’s restoring grace.
In the mighty name of Jesus, Amen.
Dos and Don’ts
Dos
- Communicate honestly and respectfully.
- Make time for one another.
- Express appreciation regularly.
- Listen without immediately becoming defensive.
- Apologize sincerely when wrong.
- Forgive genuine offences.
- Pray together.
- Protect marital privacy.
- Nurture friendship.
- Show appropriate affection.
- Discuss expectations openly.
- Rebuild trust through consistent behavior.
- Seek wise marital counseling when appropriate.
- Create healthy shared experiences.
- Keep Christ at the center.
Don’ts
- Do not force affection or intimacy.
- Do not use intimacy as punishment or manipulation.
- Do not insult or demean your spouse.
- Do not compare your spouse with another person.
- Do not deliberately provoke jealousy.
- Do not expose private marital matters unnecessarily.
- Do not use children as weapons.
- Do not ignore legitimate emotional wounds.
- Do not cultivate inappropriate emotional intimacy outside the marriage.
- Do not assume your spouse should automatically know what you need.
- Do not weaponize past mistakes.
- Do not allow resentment to grow unchecked.
- Do not use prayer or spiritual language to manipulate your spouse.
- Do not tolerate abuse or serious danger in the name of preserving appearances.
- Do not stop working on the relationship simply because affection has temporarily weakened.
Aggressive Praise & Worship
Begin with energetic praise and worship.
Praise the Lord because He restores broken relationships.
Praise Him because He heals wounded hearts.
Praise Him because He teaches His people how to love.
Praise Him because He can restore friendship and companionship.
Praise Him because His grace is greater than marital disappointment.
Declare:
Lord Jesus, breathe fresh life into our marriage!
Every root of bitterness, catch fire!
Every power feeding emotional distance, be defeated!
Every pattern of destructive communication, break!
Let friendship be restored!
Let affection be renewed!
Let appreciation increase!
Let healthy attraction flourish!
Let forgiveness flow!
Let covenant love become stronger!
Prayer Instructions
- Begin with worship and thanksgiving.
- Read Genesis 2:18–24 and 1 Corinthians 13:4–7.
- Ask God to reveal personal attitudes that may have contributed to emotional distance.
- Repent sincerely where necessary.
- Pray for your spouse without accusation.
- Pray for emotional healing and restoration.
- Pray against bitterness, resentment, neglect, and destructive communication.
- Pray for renewed friendship, affection, and companionship.
- Pray the 50 deliverance prayer points aggressively.
- End by declaring restoration, wisdom, peace, and covenant strength over your marriage.
50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points
1.
O Lord, arise and restore healthy love, friendship, affection, and companionship between my spouse and me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
2.
Every power feeding emotional distance between husband and wife, be defeated by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
3.
Every root of bitterness weakening marital affection, be uprooted completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
4.
Every satanic pattern of resentment operating in my marriage, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
5.
O Lord, heal every legitimate emotional wound that has weakened our marital closeness, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
6.
Every power causing husband and wife to become emotionally indifferent toward one another, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
7.
Every spirit of unforgiveness attacking our marriage, lose your power now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8.
O Lord, give us grace to forgive one another sincerely and rebuild our relationship with wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
9.
Every power using past offences to continually destroy present marital affection, be defeated by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10.
Every pattern of repeatedly reopening old wounds, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
11.
Every power attacking healthy communication between my spouse and me, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12.
Every habit of harsh words that has wounded our friendship, be broken by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13.
O Lord, place wisdom upon our lips and gentleness within our hearts, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14.
Every power causing husband and wife to misunderstand one another continually, be defeated by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15.
O Lord, restore honest, patient, compassionate, and respectful communication in our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
16.
Every pattern of emotional withdrawal that has weakened our relationship, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
17.
Every power making one spouse deliberately ignore the legitimate emotional needs of the other, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
18.
O Lord, give us grace to notice, understand, and appropriately respond to one another’s legitimate needs, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
19.
Every power stealing quality time and companionship from our marriage, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
20.
O Lord, restore meaningful conversation, laughter, friendship, shared experiences, and wholesome companionship between us, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
21.
Every power attacking healthy marital affection, be defeated completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
22.
Every destructive pattern that has caused physical or emotional distance between spouses, be broken by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
23.
O Lord, restore appropriate tenderness, warmth, affection, and mutual appreciation in our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
24.
Every power using pressure, resentment, or manipulation to damage marital intimacy, be defeated by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
25.
O Lord, teach us to honor one another’s boundaries, dignity, comfort, and legitimate marital needs, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
26.
Every spirit of comparison attacking our satisfaction with our own marriage, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
27.
Every power causing either spouse to compare the marriage with unrealistic images of other relationships, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
28.
O Lord, help us appreciate the unique beauty and strengths You have placed within our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
29.
Every power introducing inappropriate emotional attachments outside the marriage, be broken by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
30.
O Lord, strengthen our commitment to protect the emotional and relational boundaries of our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
31.
Every power attacking trust between husband and wife, be defeated by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
32.
O Lord, give us grace to rebuild trust through truthfulness, consistency, transparency, patience, and responsible actions, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
33.
Every pattern of suspicion without legitimate evidence, be broken by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
34.
Every power causing unnecessary jealousy and insecurity in my marriage, be defeated by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
35.
O Lord, establish security, faithfulness, confidence, and mutual reassurance between my spouse and me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
36.
Every power turning ordinary marital disagreements into prolonged emotional separation, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
37.
O Lord, give us grace to resolve disagreements without destroying our friendship, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
38.
Every power stealing laughter, joy, playfulness, and wholesome companionship from our marriage, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
39.
O Lord, restore genuine joy and friendship between husband and wife, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
40.
Every power attacking our spiritual unity as a couple, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
41.
O Lord, establish a stronger altar of prayer, worship, Scripture, and godly fellowship in our home, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
42.
Every satanic distraction weakening our marital bond, be broken by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
43.
Every power causing neglect of the marriage because of work, technology, responsibilities, or other distractions, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
44.
O Lord, give us wisdom to intentionally nurture our marriage amid daily responsibilities, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
45.
Every destructive habit that repeatedly pushes my spouse and me apart, be uprooted by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
46.
I decree that the friendship between my spouse and me shall be restored and strengthened, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
47.
I decree that healthy love, appreciation, tenderness, appropriate affection, and companionship shall increase in our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
48.
I decree that every legitimate wound damaging our marital relationship shall receive healing, wisdom, forgiveness, and restoration, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
49.
I decree that no destructive pattern shall permanently destroy the love, friendship, and covenant commitment God desires for our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
50.
Father, completely restore healthy marital love, friendship, attraction, affection, trust, communication, companionship, faithfulness, and covenant commitment between spouses, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Final Prophetic Declaration
I decree that healthy love is being restored in my marriage!
Every root of bitterness is uprooted.
Every pattern of emotional distance is broken.
Every destructive communication pattern is terminated.
Every pattern of neglect is defeated.
Every unnecessary comparison is rejected.
Every inappropriate outside emotional attachment is renounced.
Every legitimate wound is being addressed with wisdom and healing.
Our friendship shall return.
Our laughter shall return.
Our companionship shall increase.
Our appreciation shall increase.
Our communication shall improve.
Our trust shall become stronger through consistent and truthful actions.
Our appropriate marital affection shall flourish.
Our attraction shall be nurtured in healthy and mutual ways.
Our emotional connection shall deepen.
Our spiritual unity shall increase.
We shall not become strangers. We shall not live as enemies. We shall not allow bitterness to become our lifestyle. We shall not allow neglect to destroy our covenant.
The Lord shall teach us how to love one another better.
The Lord shall restore what can be restored.
The Lord shall give us wisdom where wounds require healing.
The Lord shall give us humility where repentance is needed.
The Lord shall give us patience where rebuilding takes time.
Our marriage shall become stronger through intentional love and godly commitment.
Our friendship shall be strong. Our communication shall be healthy. Our affection shall be wholesome. Our covenant shall be honored. Our home shall be filled with peace.
In the mighty name of Jesus, Amen.
Conclusion
Father, we thank You because You are the God of restoration.
We place every marriage represented here into Your hands.
Where love has grown weak, teach spouses how to nurture it again.
Where friendship has disappeared, create opportunities for genuine companionship.
Where communication has become harsh, teach them tenderness.
Where bitterness has accumulated, release forgiveness and wisdom.
Where trust has been damaged, give grace for truthful, consistent, responsible actions that can rebuild it.
Where emotional distance has developed, help spouses reconnect through patience, honest conversation, shared experiences, prayer, appreciation, and appropriate affection.
Lord, protect every marriage from destructive outside influences.
Teach husbands and wives to protect their covenant without controlling or manipulating one another.
Let no spouse be forced into affection or intimacy. Let love be expressed freely, respectfully, and mutually.
Where deeper wounds exist, provide wisdom to seek appropriate pastoral or professional marital support.
Restore friendship. Restore communication. Restore tenderness. Restore appreciation. Restore joy. Restore companionship. Strengthen faithfulness. Strengthen covenant commitment.
Let every restored marriage become a testimony of Your grace.
Let husband and wife learn to cherish one another again.
Let their home become an atmosphere of peace, friendship, respect, affection, and godly love.
May their marriage glorify You and become stronger through every season.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
