45 MFM DELIVERANCE PRAYER POINTS AGAINST THE SPIRIT OF ABSCONDENCE, ABANDONMENT AND EVERY POWER CAUSING DIVINE HELPERS TO DISAPPEAR

1. PRAYER FOCUS

Prayer Title

45 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points Against the Spirit of Abscondence, Abandonment and Every Power Causing Divine Helpers to Disappear

Main Prayer Focus

This prayer session focuses on seeking God for grace, discernment, healthy relationships, legitimate connections, and preservation of opportunities through which God may provide help.

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The prayer addresses patterns such as:

• Repeated abandonment by people who made legitimate commitments.
• Sudden disappearance of legitimate opportunities.
• Loss of supportive relationships.
• Recurring disappointment from expected sources of assistance.
• Self-sabotaging behaviours that damage healthy relationships.
• Fear, mistrust, isolation, and destructive relational patterns.
• Missed opportunities caused by poor timing, communication, or judgment.
• Unhealthy relationships that need to end rather than be preserved.

The warfare is directed against destructive patterns, deception, fear, manipulation, confusion, and relational sabotage—not against innocent people or their free will.

Prayer Objectives

1. To ask God to preserve healthy and legitimate relationships.
2. To receive discernment concerning genuine helpers and harmful relationships.
3. To overcome recurring patterns of abandonment.
4. To break destructive self-sabotaging behaviours.
5. To receive wisdom in handling relationships and opportunities.
6. To ask God to connect me with appropriate people.
7. To preserve legitimate opportunities according to His will.
8. To overcome fear of rejection and abandonment.
9. To develop healthy, trustworthy relationships.
10. To trust God’s provision rather than becoming dependent upon one individual.

2. BIBLE EXHORTATION

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God often accomplishes His purposes through relationships.

Paul had Barnabas.

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Moses had Aaron.

David had Jonathan.

Naomi had Ruth.

Paul had various fellow workers who supported his ministry.

God can use people to encourage, guide, protect, teach, support, or open legitimate opportunities.

But Scripture also teaches us not to place our ultimate confidence in human beings.

Psalm 121:1–2 says:

“I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.”

“My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.”

People may help you, but God remains the ultimate source of help.

Sometimes someone disappears because the relationship was unhealthy.

Sometimes an opportunity disappears because it was not God’s will.

Sometimes a person withdraws because of circumstances beyond your control.

Sometimes our own behaviour contributes to the breakdown of relationships.

Therefore, this prayer should not become a demand that every person remain in your life.

Instead, pray:

“Lord, preserve the relationships You have ordained, remove relationships that are harmful, connect me with the right people, and give me wisdom to recognize and steward divine opportunities.”

3. PROPHETIC ILLUSTRATION

David and Jonathan

Jonathan became a genuine friend and covenant ally to David during one of the most difficult seasons of David’s life.

Jonathan recognized David’s calling and supported him even when doing so was personally costly.

1 Samuel 18:3:

“Then Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him as his own soul.”

Jonathan’s friendship demonstrates the value of relationships that are based upon loyalty, truth, sacrifice, and godly purpose.

But David also experienced people leaving him.

At different stages of his life, people abandoned him, betrayed him, or changed their allegiance.

Yet David’s story did not end because some people disappeared.

God remained his ultimate source.

The lesson is:

Value genuine relationships, but never make a human being your god.

People may come.

People may leave.

God remains faithful.

4. BIBLE TEXTS FOR THE PRAYER SESSION

Read and meditate upon:

• Genesis 24:12–27
• Exodus 17:8–13
• Ruth 1:16–18
• 1 Samuel 18:1–4
• 1 Samuel 23:16–18
• Psalm 20:1–9
• Psalm 27:1–14
• Psalm 34:1–22
• Psalm 37:3–7
• Psalm 40:1–17
• Psalm 46:1–11
• Psalm 54:1–7
• Psalm 68:5–6
• Psalm 121:1–8
• Proverbs 13:20
• Proverbs 17:17
• Proverbs 18:24
• Proverbs 27:9–10
• Isaiah 41:10–13
• Matthew 7:7–11
• John 15:12–17
• Romans 12:9–18
• 1 Corinthians 15:33
• Galatians 6:2
• Philippians 4:10–19
• Hebrews 13:1–2

5. BIBLE READING

Psalm 68:5–6

“A father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows, is God in his holy habitation.”

“God setteth the solitary in families.”

Meditation

God is concerned about human relationships.

He sees loneliness.

He sees rejection.

He sees people who have experienced repeated abandonment.

He sees those who have been disappointed by people they trusted.

Yet God’s answer is not always to restore every former relationship.

Sometimes His answer is to provide new relationships.

Sometimes His answer is to heal the person first.

Sometimes His answer is to teach discernment.

Sometimes His answer is to close an unhealthy door.

Sometimes His answer is to bring trustworthy people into your life.

Therefore, ask God for the right helpers, the right relationships, the right opportunities, and the wisdom to steward them properly.

6. CONFESSION

Declare boldly:

Jesus Christ is Lord over my life and destiny.

The Lord is my ultimate Helper.

My confidence is in God.

I reject fear of abandonment.

I reject destructive dependence.

I reject manipulation.

I reject unhealthy attachment.

I reject destructive isolation.

I reject self-sabotage.

I reject every pattern that repeatedly destroys healthy relationships.

I receive wisdom.

I receive discernment.

I receive humility.

I receive emotional maturity.

I receive healthy boundaries.

I receive grace to communicate wisely.

I receive grace to recognize genuine relationships.

I receive grace to release unhealthy relationships.

I receive grace to steward legitimate opportunities.

I receive grace to forgive.

I receive grace to build trustworthy relationships.

The Lord shall order my relationships.

The Lord shall order my steps.

The Lord shall connect me with people who are beneficial according to His will.

The Lord shall disconnect me from relationships that are harmful according to His will.

I shall not depend upon one person as though that person were my source.

God is my Source.

God is my Helper.

God is my Defender.

God is my Provider.

I shall not be destroyed by abandonment.

I shall not be controlled by fear of rejection.

I shall not sabotage healthy relationships.

I shall walk in wisdom.

I shall walk in love.

I shall walk in discernment.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

7. SPIRITUAL SYMPTOMS AND PATTERNS TO PRAY ABOUT

Bring these recurring patterns before God:

1. Repeated abandonment by people who made legitimate commitments.
2. Sudden disappearance of legitimate opportunities.
3. Recurring disappointment from expected sources of support.
4. Persistent fear that everyone will eventually leave.
5. Repeated breakdown of healthy relationships.
6. Difficulty trusting trustworthy people.
7. Repeated attachment to unreliable people.
8. Persistent isolation.
9. Recurring misunderstandings that destroy relationships.
10. Repeated self-sabotage.
11. Fear of asking for legitimate assistance.
12. Dependence upon one person for all support.
13. Repeated loss of opportunities because of poor communication.
14. Persistent feelings of rejection.
15. Difficulty distinguishing genuine helpers from manipulative people.

These patterns require prayer and honest self-examination. Not every person who leaves is a divine enemy, and not every closed door represents spiritual warfare.

8. AGGRESSIVE PRAISE & WORSHIP

Begin with vigorous praise.

Praise Declarations

Shout: The Lord is my Helper!

Shout: My help comes from the Lord!

Shout: I shall not be stranded!

Shout: God shall order my relationships!

Shout: God shall order my opportunities!

Shout: Every destructive pattern shall break!

Shout: Every destructive connection shall lose its influence!

Shout: Divine wisdom shall guide me!

Shout: I shall recognize genuine relationships!

Shout: I shall walk in healthy relationships!

Praise Scriptures

Psalm 121:2:

“My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.”

Psalm 46:1:

“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.”

Hebrews 13:5:

“I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”

Praise God because He does not abandon His children.

Praise Him because human beings are not your ultimate source.

Praise Him because He can bring the right people into your life.

Praise Him because He can also give you wisdom to release relationships that are harmful.

9. PRAYER INSTRUCTIONS

1. Begin with thanksgiving.
2. Worship God sincerely.
3. Confess known sins and ask for mercy.
4. Read Psalm 121 aloud.
5. Ask God to reveal unhealthy relational patterns.
6. Ask God to heal wounds caused by previous abandonment.
7. Pray against fear, manipulation, confusion, and self-sabotage.
8. Ask God for wisdom concerning relationships.
9. Pray for legitimate opportunities and trustworthy connections.
10. Forgive people who have abandoned or disappointed you.
11. Establish healthy boundaries where necessary.
12. Pray the 45 points with faith and concentration.
13. End with thanksgiving and prophetic declarations.

10. 45 MFM DELIVERANCE PRAYER POINTS

1.

O Lord my Father, arise and deliver me from every destructive pattern of abandonment and abscondence working against my legitimate relationships, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

2.

Every power causing legitimate relationships to collapse through confusion, fear, deception, or sabotage, lose your power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

3.

Every recurring pattern of people disappearing from my life at critical moments, be broken according to God’s perfect will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

4.

O Lord, connect me with trustworthy people who will contribute positively to the purposes You have ordained for my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

5.

Every power of rejection and abandonment attacking my confidence, lose your grip over my mind, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

6.

Every destructive pattern causing me to lose legitimate opportunities through poor decisions or self-sabotage, break by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

7.

Every evil influence creating unnecessary division between me and trustworthy people, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

8.

O Lord, give me discernment to recognize genuine helpers and wisdom to steward every legitimate relationship properly, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

9.

Every power encouraging me to trust unreliable people while rejecting trustworthy relationships, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

10.

Every destructive pattern of repeated disappointment from people upon whom I have legitimately depended, come to an end according to God’s will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

11.

Every power feeding fear of abandonment in my heart, lose your influence over me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

12.

O Lord, heal every wound created by previous rejection, betrayal, abandonment, and disappointment, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

13.

Every power causing unnecessary misunderstanding between me and legitimate relationships, be silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

14.

Every evil influence encouraging isolation and withdrawal from healthy relationships, lose your power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

15.

Every recurring cycle of promising relationships ending in unnecessary abandonment, break by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

16.

O Lord, deliver me from every habit, attitude, or behaviour through which I unknowingly sabotage healthy relationships, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

17.

Every power making me suspicious of genuine people and comfortable with destructive relationships, lose your influence, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

18.

Every legitimate helper assigned by God to support a righteous purpose in my life, let every destructive barrier against that relationship be removed according to God’s will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

19.

Every power attempting to cause legitimate opportunities to disappear through confusion and disorder, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

20.

O Lord, give me wisdom to communicate clearly, respectfully, and honestly with people You have placed in my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

21.

Every destructive pattern of losing good relationships because of pride, anger, fear, impatience, or poor judgment, break in my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

22.

Every power attempting to make me permanently dependent upon one human being, lose your influence over my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

23.

O Lord, let my dependence rest upon You while You provide appropriate people, opportunities, and resources according to Your will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

24.

Every manipulative relationship masquerading as divine assistance, be exposed and removed from my path according to God’s perfect will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

25.

Every power causing legitimate friendships and partnerships to deteriorate without righteous cause, lose your influence, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

26.

O Lord, restore legitimate relationships that can be restored and give me grace to release relationships that should remain closed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

27.

Every recurring pattern of betrayal, abandonment, and sudden withdrawal surrounding my legitimate relationships, break by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

28.

Every power using past abandonment to make me reject present opportunities, lose your hold over my mind, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

29.

O Lord, remove every destructive fear that prevents me from forming healthy and trustworthy relationships, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

30.

Every evil influence causing unnecessary conflict between me and people of legitimate goodwill, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

31.

Every power attempting to make trustworthy people misunderstand me through false information, let truth prevail, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

32.

O Lord, surround me with wise, trustworthy, honest, and mutually beneficial relationships according to Your perfect purpose, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

33.

Every power causing repeated missed connections and lost legitimate opportunities, be frustrated; let divine wisdom order my steps, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

34.

Every destructive cycle of rejection immediately before legitimate advancement, break according to God’s perfect will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

35.

Every weapon fashioned against my healthy relationships, legitimate opportunities, peace, and progress shall not prosper, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

36.

O Lord, teach me to recognize when a relationship is healthy, when it requires boundaries, and when it is time to release it, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

37.

Every power attempting to isolate me from healthy community and trustworthy support, lose your influence, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

38.

Every destructive influence encouraging bitterness because of former abandonment, be broken; give me grace to forgive and move forward, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

39.

O Lord, give me wisdom to maintain healthy relationships through honesty, humility, patience, communication, and mutual respect, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

40.

Every power causing legitimate people to withdraw because of avoidable conflict or misunderstanding, be frustrated; let wisdom and reconciliation prevail where appropriate, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

41.

Every longstanding pattern of relational loss that is contrary to God’s purpose for my life, receive divine intervention and come to an end according to His will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

42.

Every satanic strategy designed to make me believe that I have no one and that I must face everything alone, fail completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

43.

I declare that fear shall not control my relationships, abandonment shall not define my identity, and rejection shall not determine my future, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

44.

O Lord, establish me in healthy relationships, divine wisdom, discernment, favour, emotional maturity, trustworthy community, and legitimate opportunities according to Your perfect will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

45.

O Lord my Father, arise and deliver me from every destructive pattern of abscondence, abandonment, rejection, relational sabotage, manipulation, confusion, isolation, betrayal, fear, and every influence causing legitimate helpers or opportunities to disappear; preserve every relationship You have ordained, remove every harmful connection, expose every deceptive influence, heal every wound of abandonment, correct whatever needs correction in me, connect me with trustworthy people according to Your will, and establish me in healthy relationships and legitimate opportunities that advance Your purpose for my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

11. PROPHETIC DECLARATIONS

Declare boldly:

Jesus Christ is Lord over my life!

Jesus Christ is Lord over my destiny!

The Lord is my ultimate Helper!

My help comes from the Lord.

I reject the fear of abandonment.

I reject destructive isolation.

I reject manipulation.

I reject unhealthy dependence.

I reject self-sabotage.

I reject destructive relational patterns.

I receive wisdom.

I receive discernment.

I receive emotional maturity.

I receive healthy boundaries.

I receive grace to communicate wisely.

I receive grace to recognize trustworthy people.

I receive grace to release harmful relationships.

The Lord shall order my relationships.

The Lord shall order my opportunities.

The Lord shall order my steps.

Every destructive cycle of abandonment shall break.

Every destructive cycle of rejection shall break.

Every destructive cycle of relational sabotage shall break.

Every false connection shall be exposed.

Every manipulative relationship shall lose its influence.

Every legitimate relationship ordained by God shall receive grace for healthy stewardship.

I shall not be stranded.

I shall not be destroyed by rejection.

I shall not be controlled by fear.

I shall not make one human being my source.

God is my Source!

God is my Helper!

God is my Provider!

God is my Defender!

The Lord shall connect me with appropriate people.

The Lord shall give me wisdom to steward those relationships.

The Lord shall give me grace to walk away from harmful connections.

The Lord shall heal my relational wounds.

The Lord shall establish me in healthy community.

I shall walk in love.

I shall walk in wisdom.

I shall walk in discernment.

I shall walk in humility.

I shall walk in healthy boundaries.

I shall not be permanently defined by abandonment.

I shall not be imprisoned by rejection.

I shall not be controlled by fear of people leaving.

My confidence shall remain in God.

My legitimate relationships shall flourish according to God’s will.

My testimony shall glorify God.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

12. DOS AND DON’TS

DO

• Do trust God as your ultimate source.
• Do pray for wisdom concerning relationships.
• Do communicate clearly.
• Do practice honesty and humility.
• Do maintain healthy boundaries.
• Do appreciate trustworthy people.
• Do forgive where appropriate.
• Do examine your own behaviour honestly.
• Do seek wise counsel when relationships become complicated.
• Do accept that some relationships may end for healthy reasons.

DON’T

• Don’t assume everyone who leaves is a demonic enemy.
• Don’t attempt to control another person’s choices.
• Don’t manipulate people into remaining in your life.
• Don’t retaliate against people who withdraw.
• Don’t chase unhealthy relationships endlessly.
• Don’t blame innocent people for every disappointment.
• Don’t become dependent upon one person as your only source of help.
• Don’t ignore your own contribution to recurring relationship problems.
• Don’t sacrifice healthy boundaries because you fear abandonment.
• Don’t mistake every closed door for spiritual warfare.

13. FINAL AGGRESSIVE WARFARE CHARGE

Lift your voice and declare:

O Lord, arise!

Let every destructive pattern of abandonment lose its grip!

Let every cycle of relational sabotage break!

Let every manipulative connection be exposed!

Let every destructive influence causing unnecessary division fail!

Let every pattern of isolation be broken!

Let divine wisdom prevail over my relationships!

I refuse to live in fear of abandonment!

I refuse to live under rejection!

I refuse to sabotage healthy relationships!

I refuse to make people my ultimate source!

I will trust God.

I will walk in wisdom.

I will communicate with maturity.

I will maintain healthy boundaries.

I will recognize genuine relationships.

I will release destructive relationships.

The Lord is my Helper!

The Lord is my Provider!

The Lord is my Defender!

The Lord is my Source!

Every destructive pattern shall break!

Every manipulative influence shall fail!

Every unhealthy connection shall lose its power!

Every legitimate relationship shall receive grace for healthy stewardship!

Every legitimate opportunity shall receive divine direction!

The Lord shall order my steps.

The Lord shall heal my wounds.

The Lord shall give me wisdom.

The Lord shall surround me with appropriate relationships.

I shall not be stranded!

I shall not be permanently defined by abandonment!

I shall not be controlled by fear!

I shall walk in wisdom and discernment!

I shall build healthy relationships!

I shall recognize the people God legitimately brings into my life!

I shall fulfil God’s purpose for my life!

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

14. CONCLUSION

People can be important instruments of God’s provision, encouragement, instruction, friendship, and opportunity.

But they are not God.

People can disappoint.

People can change.

People can leave.

People can misunderstand.

People can fail to keep promises.

And sometimes people need to leave because a relationship has become unhealthy.

Therefore, the ultimate prayer is not that every person who ever entered your life must remain forever.

The prayer is:

“Lord, preserve the relationships You have ordained, heal the relationships that can be healed, remove the relationships that are harmful, connect me with trustworthy people, and give me wisdom to steward every relationship correctly.”

Do not allow past abandonment to make you reject future relationships.

Do not allow rejection to convince you that you are worthless.

Do not allow disappointment to make you suspicious of everyone.

And do not allow dependence upon people to replace dependence upon God.

Psalm 121:2 declares:

“My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.”

Therefore:

Every destructive pattern of abandonment shall be confronted.

Every legitimate relationship shall receive grace for healthy stewardship.

Every harmful connection shall be exposed and released according to God’s wisdom.

Every wound of rejection shall receive healing.

Every pattern of self-sabotage shall be confronted.

Every legitimate opportunity shall receive divine direction.

You shall not be stranded.

You shall not be controlled by fear of abandonment.

You shall walk in wisdom, love, discernment, humility, and healthy boundaries.

God shall remain your ultimate Source.

Your relationships shall serve God’s purposes rather than replace God in your life.

And your testimony shall glorify Jesus Christ.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.