21 MFM Warfare Prayer Points Against the Spirit of Arguments, Contentions and Every Spirit of Strife

1. Prayer Focus

Prayer Focus: To confront every pattern of destructive arguments, contentions, quarrels, hostility, provocation, division, bitterness, and strife working against peace, unity, progress, relationships, family, ministry, workplace, and destiny.

This prayer session focuses on:

Breaking destructive cycles of quarrelling.
Rejecting unnecessary contention and hostility.
Silencing divisive influences.
Destroying patterns of bitterness and unforgiveness.
Receiving wisdom to avoid destructive conflicts.
Restoring peace and healthy communication.
Establishing godly order in relationships.
Walking in love, patience, humility, and self-control.

2. Bible Exhortation

The Bible repeatedly warns against the destructive nature of strife. Proverbs 17:14 teaches that the beginning of contention should be stopped before it grows into a destructive conflict. Proverbs 15:1 also reminds us that a soft answer can turn away wrath.

As believers, we are called to pursue peace without compromising truth or righteousness. Not every argument deserves a response, and not every provocation should receive retaliation.

The enemy can exploit anger, pride, misunderstanding, unforgiveness, and careless words to create division. Therefore, spiritual warfare against strife should be accompanied by humility, wisdom, forgiveness, self-control, truthful communication, and a commitment to peace.

3. Bible Texts

Proverbs 15:1 — A soft answer turns away wrath.
Proverbs 17:14 — Stop contention before it becomes destructive.
Proverbs 26:20 — Without fuel, strife ceases.
James 3:16–18 — Strife produces confusion, while godly wisdom produces peace.
Ephesians 4:31–32 — Put away bitterness, anger, and evil speaking.
Colossians 3:13–15 — Forgiveness and the peace of Christ.
Romans 12:18 — Live peaceably with others as far as possible.
Matthew 5:9 — Blessed are the peacemakers.
Proverbs 16:28 — A divisive person separates close relationships.
Galatians 5:22–23 — The fruit of the Spirit includes love, patience, gentleness, and self-control.

4. Bible Reading

James 3:16–18

Read this passage carefully and meditate on the contrast between earthly wisdom that produces envy and strife and the wisdom from above that produces purity, peace, gentleness, mercy, and good fruit.

5. Confession

I confess that Jesus Christ is the Lord of my life.

I reject every pattern of destructive strife, quarrelling, bitterness, anger, hostility, and unnecessary contention.

I refuse to become an instrument of division.

My mouth shall not become a weapon of destruction.

I shall not answer provocation with destructive words.

I receive the wisdom that comes from above.

I receive grace to control my emotions and my speech.

I receive patience to listen before responding.

I receive humility to admit when I am wrong.

I receive grace to forgive and pursue peace.

Every destructive cycle of conflict around my life shall be broken.

The peace of Christ shall rule in my heart.

My home shall experience peace.

My relationships shall experience healthy communication.

My progress shall not be destroyed by unnecessary strife.

I shall walk in love, wisdom, truth, patience, and self-control.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

6. Spiritual Symptoms

The following patterns may indicate a need for prayer, reflection, better communication, wise counsel, or practical intervention:

Frequent arguments over minor issues
Constant quarrelling
Escalating disagreements
Hostile communication
Uncontrolled anger
Persistent resentment
Refusal to forgive
Provocative speech
Constant suspicion
Gossip that creates division
Repeated misunderstandings
Difficulty listening to others
Pride during disagreements
Desire to always win an argument
Family or workplace tension
Frequent emotional reactions
Difficulty maintaining peace

Persistent or severe conflict may also require honest communication, mediation, counseling, or other appropriate professional support.

7. Prophetic Declaration

I declare that every destructive cycle of strife around my life is broken!

I shall not be controlled by anger.

I shall not be manipulated by provocation.

I shall not become a carrier of division.

My mouth shall speak life.

My heart shall be established in peace.

I receive wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent.

I receive grace to answer with wisdom rather than rage.

Every atmosphere of unnecessary contention around me shall be transformed.

Every seed of bitterness shall be uprooted from my heart.

The peace of Christ shall rule in my relationships.

My home shall not become a battlefield of constant quarrels.

My relationships shall be strengthened by truth, love, patience, and wisdom.

Every destructive pattern of strife shall lose its influence over my life.

I shall be a peacemaker without compromising righteousness.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

8. Dos and Don’ts

Dos

Pray before responding to provocation.
Listen carefully before reaching conclusions.
Speak truthfully and respectfully.
Apologize when you are wrong.
Forgive where forgiveness is appropriate.
Seek peaceful resolution.
Set healthy boundaries where necessary.
Seek wise counsel during serious conflicts.
Practice patience and self-control.
Pursue reconciliation when it is safe and appropriate.

Don’ts

Don’t repay insults with insults.
Don’t deliberately provoke people.
Don’t spread gossip.
Don’t use prayer as an excuse for retaliation.
Don’t allow pride to control disagreements.
Don’t make accusations without evidence.
Don’t continue arguments merely to prove that you are right.
Don’t allow bitterness to grow unchecked.
Don’t ignore serious problems that require appropriate intervention.
Don’t compromise truth simply to avoid every disagreement.

9. Aggressive Praise & Worship

Begin with energetic praise and worship.

Declare:

Lord, You are the Prince of Peace!
You are greater than every conflict around me!
I praise You because Your wisdom is greater than human contention!
I magnify You because You can turn chaos into order!
I worship You because Your peace rules my heart!
I bless Your name because You give wisdom to those who ask!
I praise You because every weapon of division shall not prevail against Your purpose!
I exalt You because Your love is stronger than hatred!
I praise You because Your grace gives me self-control!
I declare that peace shall reign in my life!

Worship Scripture

Psalm 133:1

“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!”

10. Prayer Instructions

Begin with thanksgiving and praise.
Read James 3:13–18.
Confess every known attitude, word, or action that has contributed to unnecessary conflict.
Forgive those you need to forgive.
Ask God for wisdom concerning difficult relationships.
Pray the 21 warfare prayer points with faith.
Renounce anger, bitterness, revenge, and destructive speech.
Ask God to expose the roots of recurring conflict.
Commit yourself to truthful and peaceful communication.
End with thanksgiving and declarations of peace.

11. 21 MFM Warfare Prayer Points

1.

Every power sponsoring destructive arguments and quarrels in my life, lose your influence now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

2.

O Lord, arise and uproot every seed of strife growing in my relationships, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

3.

Every evil pattern of constant contention and unnecessary conflict, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

4.

Every power using anger and provocation to destroy my peace, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

5.

Every satanic agenda to turn minor disagreements into destructive battles, fail completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

6.

Every voice of accusation, bitterness, hostility, and division speaking around my life, be silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

7.

O Lord, give me wisdom to recognize destructive arguments before they escalate, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

8.

Every power manipulating my words to produce unnecessary conflict, lose your influence over my speech, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

9.

I break every cycle of anger, retaliation, resentment, and repeated quarrelling in my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

10.

Every evil influence attempting to divide my family, friendships, partnerships, or relationships through strife, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

11.

O Lord, let the fire of Your peace consume every atmosphere of hostility surrounding me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

12.

Every power feeding my heart with bitterness and unforgiveness, lose your hold now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

13.

I receive grace to control my tongue, control my emotions, and respond with wisdom under pressure, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

14.

Every pattern of pride that makes me unwilling to listen, apologize, forgive, or seek peace, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

15.

Every evil counsel encouraging division, gossip, suspicion, and hostility against me, be exposed and frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

16.

O Lord, establish godly communication, understanding, patience, and peace in every important relationship in my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

17.

Every power turning peaceful situations into needless battles, be defeated and rendered ineffective, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

18.

I reject every spirit of retaliation; I receive the wisdom and strength to overcome evil with good, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

19.

Every recurring cycle of conflict that has followed my family, relationships, workplace, or productive endeavors, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

20.

O Lord, make me a vessel of peace, wisdom, truth, patience, forgiveness, and reconciliation, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

21.

Father, arise and destroy every destructive pattern of arguments, contentions, strife, bitterness, division, and hostility working against my peace and progress; establish Your wisdom, love, unity, and peace in every area of my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

12. Conclusion

Father, I thank You because You are the God of peace, wisdom, order, and reconciliation.

I surrender every conflict, disagreement, strained relationship, and atmosphere of contention into Your hands. Give me wisdom to know what to confront, what to overlook, what to communicate, and when to remain silent.

Let every destructive cycle of strife be broken. Let bitterness give way to forgiveness. Let anger give way to self-control. Let suspicion give way to truth. Let division give way to unity wherever reconciliation is possible and appropriate.

I declare that I shall not become an instrument of strife. My words shall not destroy what God has ordained. My heart shall be governed by the peace of Christ, and my decisions shall be guided by wisdom from above.

Every destructive power of contention against my peace and progress is defeated. I receive divine wisdom, spiritual maturity, self-control, peace, and victory.

In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.