45 MFM AGGRESSIVE PRAYER POINTS AGAINST THE SPIRIT OF ASPERITY, HARSHNESS AND EVERY SPIRIT OF CRUELTY AGAINST MY LIFE
1. PRAYER FOCUS
Prayer Title:
45 MFM Aggressive Prayer Points Against the Spirit of Asperity, Harshness and Every Spirit of Cruelty Against My Life
Main Prayer Burden: To seek God’s intervention against every pattern of unusual harshness, hostility, rejection, oppression, cruelty, bitterness, wicked treatment, destructive relationships, and every work of darkness that seeks to make life unnecessarily difficult, while asking God to establish mercy, favour, peace, protection, restoration, and divine victory.
Key Prayer Objectives:
- To destroy every pattern of cruelty directed against my life.
- To break cycles of unnecessary hardship and hostility.
- To silence every voice of accusation and condemnation.
- To receive divine mercy and favour.
- To ask God to frustrate every evil counsel against me.
- To establish divine protection over my life and destiny.
- To walk in wisdom, love, discernment, righteousness, and peace.
2. BIBLE EXHORTATION
The believer is not called to live under the dominion of fear, hatred, oppression, bitterness, or cruelty. Scripture repeatedly reveals God as a refuge for His people and a defender of those who trust Him.
The battle is ultimately the Lord’s. Therefore, our warfare is not an excuse for hatred or revenge against people. We resist evil, reject wickedness, forgive offenders, and ask God to overturn every ungodly situation according to His righteous judgment.
Psalm 34:17:
“The righteous cry, and the LORD heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles.”
Isaiah 54:17:
“No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper.”
Romans 12:21:
“Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.”
When harshness surrounds you, call upon God. When people reject you unjustly, call upon God. When circumstances become unbearably difficult, call upon God. When you encounter hostility, respond with faith, wisdom, prayer, and righteousness.
The Lord is able to turn hostility into favour, mourning into joy, rejection into acceptance, and difficulty into testimony.
3. PROPHETIC ILLUSTRATION
Esther Before the King
Esther entered the presence of a king whose authority could have resulted in death. Yet God turned what could have been a terrifying encounter into a platform for favour and deliverance.
What was intended for destruction became an opportunity for victory.
Esther 5:2:
“And it was so, when the king saw Esther the queen standing in the court, that she obtained favour in his sight.”
This illustrates an important spiritual principle:
When God goes before you, hostile environments can become favourable environments.
The prayer is therefore not merely, “Lord, destroy my enemies.” The deeper cry is:
“Lord, arise as my Defender. Turn every hostile atmosphere into an atmosphere of favour. Let every evil intention against me collapse before Your righteous judgment.”
4. BIBLE TEXTS FOR THE PRAYER SESSION
Read and meditate on:
- Psalm 23
- Psalm 27
- Psalm 34:1–22
- Psalm 35:1–28
- Psalm 46:1–11
- Psalm 91:1–16
- Psalm 121:1–8
- Isaiah 41:10–13
- Isaiah 43:1–4
- Isaiah 54:14–17
- Romans 8:31–39
- Romans 12:17–21
- Ephesians 6:10–18
- 2 Thessalonians 3:3
- 1 John 4:4
5. BIBLE READING
Psalm 27:1–6
“The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the LORD is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?”
“When the wicked, even mine enemies and my foes, came upon me to eat up my flesh, they stumbled and fell.”
“Though an host should encamp against me, my heart shall not fear: though war should rise against me, in this will I be confident.”
“For in the time of trouble he shall hide me in his pavilion: in the secret of his tabernacle shall he hide me; he shall set me up upon a rock.”
“And now shall mine head be lifted up above mine enemies round about me: therefore will I offer in his tabernacle sacrifices of joy.”
6. CONFESSION
Declare boldly:
I am a child of God.
I belong to Jesus Christ.
I refuse to live under the dominion of fear, hatred, bitterness, oppression, cruelty, or condemnation.
The Lord is my light and my salvation.
The Lord is the strength of my life.
I will not fear men.
I will not fear hostile circumstances.
I will not surrender my peace to the behavior of others.
Every evil pattern attacking my peace is broken.
Every cycle of rejection contrary to God’s purpose for my life is terminated.
I receive mercy.
I receive favour.
I receive wisdom.
I receive divine protection.
I receive grace to respond to hostility with righteousness and wisdom.
No weapon formed against me shall prosper.
The Lord shall preserve my going out and my coming in.
My destiny is in God’s hands.
My future is in God’s hands.
My family is in God’s hands.
My work is in God’s hands.
My relationships are in God’s hands.
My testimony shall not be buried.
My joy shall not be stolen.
My peace shall not be destroyed.
I overcome evil with good.
I walk in victory through Jesus Christ.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
7. SPIRITUAL SYMPTOMS TO PRAY AGAINST
Where any of these patterns repeatedly appear, bring them before God in prayer:
- Unusual hostility without understandable cause.
- Repeated rejection despite sincere effort.
- Constant conflict in otherwise peaceful situations.
- Persistent humiliation or belittling.
- Unexplained bitterness in relationships.
- Repeated encounters with abusive or excessively hostile treatment.
- Constant accusations and misrepresentation.
- Persistent loss of peace.
- Repeated disappointment immediately before breakthrough.
- Unusual opposition to legitimate progress.
- Persistent discouragement.
- Cycles of relational breakdown.
- A recurring atmosphere of fear and intimidation.
- Repeated experiences of being treated unfairly.
- Persistent temptation toward anger, revenge, bitterness, or hatred.
Important: These symptoms should not automatically be interpreted as evidence of demonic activity. Pray for spiritual discernment while also addressing practical causes, unhealthy relationships, communication problems, injustice, and personal boundaries where necessary.
8. AGGRESSIVE PRAISE & WORSHIP
Before beginning the prayer points, spend time praising God loudly and deliberately.
Praise declarations:
Every praise: Thank You, Jesus!
Every praise: You are worthy, Lord!
Every praise: You are my Defender!
Every praise: You are my Refuge!
Every praise: You are my Fortress!
Every praise: You are my Deliverer!
Every praise: You are my Shield!
Every praise: You are my Shepherd!
Every praise: You are my Victory!
Every praise: You are greater than every opposition!
Worship Scriptures
Psalm 47:1:
“O clap your hands, all ye people; shout unto God with the voice of triumph.”
Psalm 150:6:
“Let every thing that hath breath praise the LORD.”
Praise God until fear gives way to faith.
Praise God until anxiety gives way to confidence.
Praise God until your heart remembers that God is greater than the battle.
9. PRAYER INSTRUCTIONS
- Begin with repentance and thanksgiving.
- Read Psalm 27 and Psalm 91 aloud.
- Praise God vigorously before making warfare petitions.
- Pray the 45 prayer points with faith and concentration.
- Where appropriate, call out specific situations before God without wishing evil upon people.
- Renounce bitterness, hatred, revenge, and unforgiveness.
- Ask God for wisdom concerning relationships and difficult situations.
- Forgive those who have wronged you.
- Pray consistently rather than only when circumstances become difficult.
- End with thanksgiving and declarations of victory.
10. 45 MFM AGGRESSIVE PRAYER POINTS
1.
O Lord my God, arise in Your power and deliver me from every pattern of cruelty, hostility, harshness, and oppression working against my peace and progress, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
2.
Every satanic pattern of unnecessary hardship assigned against my life, break by the power of the Most High God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
3.
Every evil atmosphere of hostility surrounding my life, scatter by the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
4.
O Lord, let Your mercy speak for me wherever human harshness has spoken against me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
5.
Every voice of accusation, condemnation, and malicious judgment rising against my destiny, be silenced by the blood of Jesus, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
6.
Every evil counsel designed to make my life unnecessarily difficult, be overturned by the counsel of the Lord, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
7.
O God of divine intervention, turn every hostile situation confronting me into a testimony of Your faithfulness, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8.
Every power seeking to turn helpers against me without righteous cause, be frustrated by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
9.
Every cycle of rejection contrary to God’s purpose for my life, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10.
O Lord, arise and establish me in favour wherever I have encountered unusual hostility, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
11.
Every seed of bitterness planted in my heart through painful experiences, be uprooted, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12.
I reject every spirit of retaliation, hatred, revenge, and unforgiveness; I receive grace to overcome evil with good, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13.
Every power assigned to steal my peace through constant conflict, lose your hold over my mind and emotions, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14.
O Lord, let every hostile environment assigned against my advancement become a platform for divine favour, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15.
Every satanic agenda to surround my life with cruel and destructive relationships, be destroyed by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
16.
Every relationship that repeatedly produces ungodly oppression, confusion, and destruction in my life, let divine wisdom expose and separate me from it, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
17.
O Lord, give me discernment to recognize unhealthy relationships and courage to establish righteous boundaries, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
18.
Every evil pattern causing people to misunderstand me and judge me falsely, be overturned by divine truth, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
19.
Every power manipulating circumstances to produce humiliation and shame in my life, be disgraced by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
20.
My Father, let every closed door that should be open to me be opened by Your mercy and favour, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
21.
Every cycle of unnecessary disappointment and frustration attacking my legitimate expectations, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
22.
Every satanic programme of intimidation operating against my confidence, catch fire and die, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
23.
I decree that fear shall not rule me, men shall not enslave me, and hostility shall not determine my destiny, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
24.
Every evil voice saying that I shall suffer endlessly, be silenced by the authority of God’s Word, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
25.
O Lord, restore every good thing that has been damaged through unjust treatment, hostility, rejection, or cruelty, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
26.
Every power turning my opportunities into unnecessary battles, be frustrated by divine intervention, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
27.
Every evil pattern of constant quarrelling and strife around my life, be broken by the peace of Christ, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
28.
O Lord, make me a carrier of peace, wisdom, favour, and righteousness wherever I go, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
29.
Every power provoking me into destructive anger and ungodly reactions, lose your influence over me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
30.
Holy Ghost, purge my heart of every bitterness produced by painful experiences and establish Your love within me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
31.
Every weapon of slander, malicious accusation, and false testimony fashioned against me, shall not prosper, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
32.
O Lord, arise as my Defender and let righteousness speak louder than every false accusation against my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
33.
Every evil expectation concerning my downfall shall fail, and God’s expectation for my life shall stand, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
34.
Every power seeking to make me permanently rejected and isolated, be defeated by the favour of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
35.
O Lord, connect me with people who will encourage, strengthen, correct, and help me according to Your purpose, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
36.
Every satanic pattern of repeated relational destruction, break by the authority of Jesus Christ, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
37.
I cancel every agreement with fear, hatred, bitterness, cruelty, revenge, and hopelessness, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
38.
Every dark influence attempting to make me respond to evil with evil, be destroyed; I receive grace to walk in righteousness, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
39.
O Lord, let Your goodness and mercy follow me into every hostile environment and let Your favour speak for me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
40.
Every power assigned to frustrate my legitimate progress through hostility and unnecessary opposition, be rendered powerless, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
41.
I decree that every storm of cruelty, hostility, rejection, and oppression against my life shall become still by the authority of Jesus Christ, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
42.
O Lord, arise and fight every battle that is beyond my human strength, and give me victory according to Your righteous will, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
43.
Every evil pattern inherited, learned, or repeatedly reproduced in my relationships, be broken; let a new pattern of peace, wisdom, and godliness arise in my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
44.
I decree that I shall not die under pressure, I shall not collapse under hostility, and I shall not abandon my God because of difficult people or difficult circumstances, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
45.
O Lord my Father, arise and completely terminate every pattern of asperity, harshness, cruelty, oppression, rejection, intimidation, and unnecessary hardship confronting my life; establish me in mercy, favour, peace, protection, restoration, victory, and divine purpose, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
11. PROPHETIC DECLARATIONS
Declare these forcefully:
I am not abandoned.
I am not forsaken.
The Lord is my Defender.
The Lord is my Refuge.
The Lord is my Shield.
The Lord is my Fortress.
Every hostile storm over my life shall become still.
Every unjust accusation shall lose its power.
Every evil counsel against my destiny shall fail.
Every cycle of unnecessary hardship shall end.
Every cycle of rejection contrary to God’s will shall end.
I receive divine favour.
I receive divine wisdom.
I receive divine discernment.
I receive divine protection.
I receive divine peace.
I receive grace to forgive.
I receive grace to establish healthy boundaries.
I receive grace to overcome evil with good.
I will not become what has wounded me.
I will not become bitter because someone treated me harshly.
I will not allow hatred to rule my heart.
I will not surrender my destiny to hostile circumstances.
The Lord shall vindicate me.
The Lord shall guide me.
The Lord shall preserve me.
The Lord shall restore me.
The Lord shall lift me.
My testimony shall speak.
My peace shall return.
My joy shall return.
My confidence shall return.
My divine opportunities shall return.
My future shall not be destroyed.
I am victorious through Jesus Christ.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
12. DOS AND DON’TS
DO
- Do pray persistently.
- Do forgive people who have wronged you.
- Do ask God for wisdom before responding to hostility.
- Do maintain righteous boundaries.
- Do seek godly counsel when necessary.
- Do examine your own conduct honestly.
- Do speak truth without hatred.
- Do protect your peace through wise decisions.
- Do praise God during difficult seasons.
- Do trust God’s righteous judgment.
DON’T
- Don’t seek personal revenge.
- Don’t curse people.
- Don’t wish destruction upon innocent people.
- Don’t allow bitterness to take root.
- Don’t respond to cruelty with cruelty.
- Don’t make every difficult person a spiritual enemy.
- Don’t ignore practical problems that require practical solutions.
- Don’t remain unnecessarily in abusive or destructive situations.
- Don’t allow fear to control your decisions.
- Don’t abandon love, wisdom, or righteousness while engaging in spiritual warfare.
13. FINAL WARFARE CHARGE
Lift your voice and declare:
O Lord, arise!
Let Your light shine upon every dark situation surrounding my life!
Let Your mercy speak where judgment has been pronounced!
Let Your favour speak where rejection has spoken!
Let Your peace speak where confusion has spoken!
Let Your truth speak where falsehood has spoken!
Let Your power speak where human strength has failed!
I refuse to be defeated.
I refuse to live in fear.
I refuse to surrender my peace.
I refuse to become bitter.
I refuse to repay evil with evil.
I refuse to allow another person’s cruelty to determine my character or destiny.
I stand upon the Word of God.
I stand upon the promises of Christ.
I stand under the covering of God’s mercy.
No weapon formed against me shall prosper.
The Lord is my light and my salvation.
The Lord is the strength of my life.
The Lord shall perfect that which concerns me.
The Lord shall preserve my soul.
The Lord shall lead me from battle into victory, from rejection into favour, from confusion into peace, and from hardship into testimony.
Every evil pattern must bow to the authority of Jesus Christ.
Every ungodly influence must lose its hold.
Every hostile storm must become still.
Every righteous prayer must produce a testimony.
My life belongs to Jesus Christ.
My destiny belongs to Jesus Christ.
My future belongs to Jesus Christ.
And I shall testify of the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.
14. CONCLUSION
The ultimate victory is not merely escaping difficult people or hostile circumstances; it is remaining firmly rooted in Christ while God works righteousness, protection, restoration, wisdom, and favour into your life.
Pray aggressively, but keep your heart clean.
Fight the battle spiritually, but do not become cruel in return.
Reject hatred, but do not tolerate destructive behaviour.
Forgive, but maintain wise boundaries.
Trust God, pursue righteousness, and refuse to allow the harshness of others to transform your heart into something contrary to Christ.
The Lord is your Defender.
The Lord is your Refuge.
The Lord is your Peace.
The Lord is your Victory.
You shall overcome through Jesus Christ.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.


