45 MFM Warfare Prayer Points Against the Spirit of Abrasiveness, Hostility and Every Spirit Destroying Peace in My Life

1. Prayer Focus

This prayer session is focused on confronting every destructive pattern of abrasiveness, hostility, unnecessary conflict, anger, harshness, bitterness, strife, resentment, provocation, misunderstanding, and every influence working to destroy peace in your heart, relationships, home, workplace, ministry, and daily life.

The warfare emphasis is on asking God to destroy the works of strife, uproot bitterness, silence destructive conflict, expose manipulative schemes, heal damaged relationships, establish godly boundaries, and release the peace of Christ into every area of life.

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This prayer is not about harming people. It is about asking God to defeat evil influences, transform hearts, expose destructive patterns, and establish righteousness and peace.

2. Bible Exhortation

God desires His people to pursue peace without compromising truth or righteousness.

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Psalm 34:14 says, “Depart from evil, and do good; seek peace, and pursue it.”

Proverbs 15:1 teaches that a soft answer turns away wrath.

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James 3:16–18 reveals that where there is envy and strife, confusion and every evil work can follow, while the wisdom from above produces purity and peace.

Ephesians 4:31–32 instructs believers to put away bitterness, wrath, anger, evil speaking, and malice, while embracing kindness, forgiveness, and compassion.

Therefore, this warfare is not merely against difficult people. It is also against every destructive attitude, reaction, habit, wound, temptation, and pattern that gives strife room to operate.

You can be firm without being hostile.

You can establish boundaries without hatred.

You can confront wrongdoing without becoming abusive.

You can pursue peace without surrendering righteousness.

3. Prophetic Illustration

Imagine a calm lake disturbed by stones continually being thrown into the water. Even though the lake itself is capable of being peaceful, repeated disturbances create waves that spread far beyond the point of impact.

In the same way, repeated anger, harsh words, provocation, resentment, suspicion, and unresolved conflict can create waves that affect an entire household or relationship.

But when the source of disturbance is removed and the water is allowed to settle, peace returns.

This prayer is a prophetic cry:

Every source of destructive strife in my life must be brought under the authority of God.

Where there is anger, let grace arise.

Where there is bitterness, let forgiveness arise.

Where there is hostility, let peace arise.

Where there is confusion, let wisdom arise.

Where there is manipulation, let truth arise.

Where there is unnecessary conflict, let divine restraint arise.

4. Bible Texts

• Psalm 34:14 — Seek peace and pursue it.
• Proverbs 15:1 — A soft answer turns away wrath.
• Proverbs 16:32 — He who rules his spirit is better than one who takes a city.
• Proverbs 17:14 — Stop contention before it becomes destructive.
• Matthew 5:9 — Blessed are the peacemakers.
• Romans 12:18 — Live peaceably with all people as far as it depends on you.
• Romans 14:19 — Pursue things that make for peace.
• Ephesians 4:31–32 — Put away bitterness, anger, wrath, and malice.
• Colossians 3:12–15 — Put on compassion, kindness, humility, patience, forgiveness, and peace.
• James 1:19–20 — Be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger.
• James 3:17–18 — Wisdom from above is pure and peaceable.
• Philippians 4:6–7 — God’s peace guards the heart and mind.

5. Bible Reading

Psalm 34:12–14

Read this passage aloud and deliberately commit yourself to pursuing peace.

Proverbs 15:1–4

Read it while asking God to sanctify your words and reactions.

Ephesians 4:26–32

Read it as a spiritual examination of anger, bitterness, speech, forgiveness, and relationships.

James 3:13–18

Read it while asking God to replace earthly wisdom characterized by strife with wisdom from above.

Philippians 4:6–9

Read it slowly and surrender every anxiety, conflict, and troubling thought to God.

6. Confession

I belong to Jesus Christ.

The peace of God has authority over my life.

I reject bitterness.

I reject hatred.

I reject destructive anger.

I reject unnecessary hostility.

I reject the spirit of strife.

I reject every pattern of harsh and destructive speech.

I reject the desire for revenge.

I reject every reaction that gives conflict unnecessary power.

I receive the wisdom that comes from above.

I receive patience.

I receive self-control.

I receive discernment.

I receive grace to speak with wisdom.

I receive grace to forgive.

I receive grace to establish healthy boundaries.

I will not allow hostility to control my decisions.

I will not allow bitterness to poison my relationships.

I will pursue peace without compromising truth.

The peace of Christ shall rule in my heart.

My home shall become a place of peace.

My relationships shall be governed by wisdom.

My words shall build rather than destroy.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

7. Spiritual Symptoms

Prayerful attention may be appropriate where there are persistent patterns such as:

1. Frequent unnecessary arguments.
2. Constant irritability.
3. Explosive reactions to minor issues.
4. Persistent resentment.
5. Harsh or cutting speech.
6. Difficulty forgiving people.
7. Repeated misunderstandings.
8. Constant suspicion of others.
9. Recurring hostility within relationships.
10. Uncontrolled anger during disagreements.
11. A tendency to provoke arguments.
12. Difficulty accepting correction.
13. Persistent defensiveness.
14. Repeated conflict in otherwise manageable situations.
15. Loss of peace whenever certain situations or people arise.

These patterns can have spiritual, emotional, relational, psychological, or situational causes. Prayer should therefore be combined with honest self-examination, healthy communication, appropriate boundaries, and professional support when necessary.

8. Prophetic Declaration

I declare that the peace of Christ shall rule in my heart.

Every destructive pattern of hostility shall lose its influence over my life.

Every spirit of strife shall be resisted.

Every pattern of unnecessary conflict shall be broken.

Every root of bitterness shall be uprooted.

Every destructive word spoken against me shall not control my emotions.

Every impulse toward revenge shall lose its power.

I receive the wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent.

I receive grace to answer with wisdom.

I receive strength to walk away from unnecessary conflict.

I receive courage to establish healthy boundaries.

I receive grace to forgive without returning to unhealthy situations.

My home shall not become a battlefield.

My relationships shall not be ruled by hostility.

My mind shall not be ruled by resentment.

My heart shall not be ruled by bitterness.

The peace of God shall guard my heart and mind.

I shall become a carrier of peace without compromising truth.

Every destructive influence against my peace shall be frustrated.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

9. Dos and Don’ts

DO

• Pray before responding to provocation.
• Practice self-control.
• Speak truth with love.
• Establish healthy boundaries.
• Forgive where forgiveness is appropriate.
• Seek reconciliation when it is safe and wise.
• Walk away from unnecessary arguments.
• Listen before responding.
• Seek wise counsel in complicated conflicts.
• Get professional help when persistent anger or conflict becomes difficult to manage.

DON’T

• Do not retaliate in anger.
• Do not insult or humiliate people.
• Do not threaten anyone.
• Do not seek revenge.
• Do not curse people in prayer.
• Do not use spiritual language to justify abusive behaviour.
• Do not confuse peace with tolerating abuse.
• Do not ignore legitimate wrongdoing.
• Do not allow resentment to control your decisions.
• Do not fight every battle presented to you.

10. Aggressive Praise & Worship

Begin with vigorous praise:

Lord, I praise You because You are the Prince of Peace!

I praise You because You are greater than every storm around my life!

I praise You because You can calm every raging conflict!

I praise You because You are healing wounded hearts!

I praise You because You are breaking cycles of strife!

I praise You because You are giving me wisdom to respond correctly!

I praise You because bitterness will not rule my heart!

I praise You because hostility will not destroy my relationships!

I praise You because Your peace is greater than every conflict!

I praise You because You are restoring order to my life!

Then worship God with songs centered on His peace, mercy, patience, forgiveness, and faithfulness.

Declare:

“The peace of God rules in my heart.”

“I will not be controlled by anger.”

“I will pursue peace with wisdom.”

“God is my peace in the middle of every storm.”

11. Prayer Instructions

1. Begin with thanksgiving.
2. Read Psalm 34:14.
3. Read Proverbs 15:1.
4. Read Ephesians 4:31–32.
5. Ask God to reveal any personal attitudes contributing to conflict.
6. Repent of anger, bitterness, harshness, revenge, or destructive speech where applicable.
7. Forgive those you can genuinely forgive.
8. Ask God for wisdom concerning people and situations that require boundaries.
9. Pray the 45 prayer points aggressively and deliberately.
10. Do not pray for people’s destruction; pray for the destruction of evil works and destructive patterns.
11. Speak peace over your home, mind, relationships, and future.
12. Finish with thanksgiving and the final prophetic declarations.

12. 45 MFM Warfare Prayer Points

1.

O Lord, arise and destroy every destructive pattern of hostility working against the peace of my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

2.

Every power sponsoring unnecessary strife around me, lose your influence by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

3.

Every root of bitterness growing in my heart, be uprooted by the grace of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

4.

Every pattern of explosive anger operating in my life, break by the power of the Holy Spirit, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

5.

Every evil influence provoking me into unnecessary conflict, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

6.

Every spirit of abrasiveness making my words unnecessarily harsh and destructive, lose your influence over my speech, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

7.

O Lord, sanctify my tongue and make my words instruments of wisdom, healing, truth, and peace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

8.

Every power turning minor disagreements into destructive conflicts, be restrained by divine wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

9.

Every evil pattern of constant quarrelling surrounding my relationships, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

10.

Every power feeding suspicion, resentment, and hostility in my heart, lose your influence, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

11.

O Lord, deliver me from every reaction that gives unnecessary conflict power over my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

12.

Every evil voice encouraging revenge in my heart, be silenced by the Word of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

13.

Every root of unforgiveness poisoning my peace, be uprooted by the grace of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

14.

Every power manipulating my emotions toward unnecessary hostility, lose your influence over me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

15.

Every cycle of anger followed by regret, break completely by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

16.

O Lord, give me supernatural self-control when I am provoked, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

17.

Every destructive pattern of responding before listening, be broken; give me patience and discernment, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

18.

Every evil influence turning my home into a place of constant tension, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

19.

Every pattern of hostility destroying healthy relationships in my life, break now by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

20.

Every power using misunderstanding to create unnecessary separation, be exposed and frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

21.

O Lord, uproot every hidden seed of resentment and replace it with wisdom, forgiveness, and peace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

22.

Every power making me unnecessarily defensive whenever I receive correction, lose your influence, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

23.

Every evil pattern causing me to interpret everything through anger and suspicion, break completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

24.

O Lord, deliver me from the desire to win arguments at the expense of peace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

25.

Every power making me speak words that later produce regret, be restrained by the Spirit of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

26.

Every evil influence turning my relationships into battlegrounds, be dismantled by divine intervention, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

27.

Every pattern of unnecessary provocation surrounding my life, be broken by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

28.

O Lord, give me wisdom to know when to confront, when to speak, when to remain silent, and when to walk away, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

29.

Every power using anger to damage my opportunities, relationships, peace, and progress, lose your influence, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

30.

Every destructive word spoken in moments of anger that continues to produce conflict, let its influence be cancelled through repentance, forgiveness, and divine grace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

31.

Every evil pattern of carrying yesterday’s offense into today’s relationships, break completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

32.

O Lord, heal every wound that continually produces anger, resentment, suspicion, or hostility in me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

33.

Every power attempting to make me a permanent prisoner of past offenses, lose your influence over my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

34.

Every destructive cycle of retaliation and counter-retaliation around my life, be broken by the peace of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

35.

Every power attempting to steal my peace through constant provocation, fail completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

36.

O Lord, establish healthy boundaries around my life and give me wisdom to maintain them without hatred or bitterness, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

37.

Every hostile atmosphere surrounding my home, workplace, relationships, and legitimate endeavours, let the peace of Christ prevail, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

38.

Every evil influence attempting to turn friends, family, colleagues, or associates against one another, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

39.

Every power feeding confusion and strife into my relationships, be exposed and overcome by divine wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

40.

O Lord, let every destructive stronghold of anger, bitterness, hostility, and resentment in my life be dismantled, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

41.

Every power seeking to destroy my peace through unnecessary conflict, lose your influence over my life, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

42.

I receive grace to answer provocation with wisdom, confront wrongdoing with courage, and pursue peace without compromising truth, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

43.

I receive divine patience, self-control, discernment, humility, and wisdom in every relationship and difficult situation, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

44.

O Lord, let Your peace rule in my heart, govern my words, guide my decisions, and transform the atmosphere around me, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

45.

Father, arise and destroy every destructive work of abrasiveness, hostility, strife, bitterness, resentment, and unnecessary conflict in my life; establish Your peace in my heart, home, relationships, and future, and make me a vessel of righteousness, wisdom, truth, and peace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

13. Final Warfare Declaration

I declare that the peace of Christ shall rule in my heart.

I will not be controlled by anger.

I will not be controlled by bitterness.

I will not be controlled by hostility.

I will not become a prisoner of resentment.

I will not repay evil with evil.

I will not allow provocation to dictate my behaviour.

Every destructive cycle of strife around my life shall be broken.

Every root of bitterness shall be uprooted.

Every pattern of unnecessary conflict shall be dismantled.

My tongue shall not become a weapon of destruction.

My words shall be governed by wisdom.

My heart shall be governed by peace.

My home shall experience peace.

My relationships shall be governed by wisdom and healthy boundaries.

Where reconciliation is possible and safe, I receive grace to pursue it.

Where boundaries are necessary, I receive courage to establish them.

Where silence is wiser, I receive self-control.

Where confrontation is necessary, I receive wisdom and courage.

Every evil influence attempting to steal my peace shall lose its power.

I shall not become what has wounded me.

I shall not allow another person’s hostility to determine the condition of my heart.

The peace of God shall guard my heart and mind.

I shall pursue peace without compromising righteousness.

I shall walk in wisdom.

I shall walk in self-control.

I shall walk in love.

I shall walk in truth.

I shall walk in peace.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

14. Conclusion

Father, I thank You because You are the God of peace.

I surrender every source of anger, bitterness, hostility, resentment, strife, and unnecessary conflict into Your hands.

Search my heart and remove everything within me that gives destructive conflict room to grow.

Heal every wound that continues to produce bitterness.

Give me grace to forgive.

Give me wisdom to communicate.

Give me patience to listen.

Give me courage to confront what must be confronted.

Give me discernment to recognize unhealthy situations.

Give me strength to establish healthy boundaries.

Let no destructive influence steal the peace You have given me.

Let my home become a place of peace.

Let my relationships become healthier.

Let my words carry wisdom.

Let my actions reflect Christ.

Where there has been hostility, establish peace.

Where there has been confusion, establish clarity.

Where there has been bitterness, establish healing.

Where there has been strife, establish order.

Where there has been provocation, establish self-control.

Let the peace of Christ rule in every area of my life.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.