50 MFM AGGRESSIVE PRAYER POINTS AGAINST EVERY EXTERNAL ATTACK, STRANGE INFLUENCE, AND EVIL MANIPULATION AGAINST MARRIAGE

1. PRAYER FOCUS

Prayer Focus: To wage aggressive spiritual warfare against every external pressure, ungodly influence, destructive counsel, manipulation, interference, temptation, confusion, jealousy, family pressure, unhealthy friendships, financial pressure, and every other influence seeking to weaken, corrupt, divide, or destroy a marriage.

These prayers are focused on placing the marriage under the authority of Jesus Christ, establishing godly boundaries, protecting marital unity, exposing destructive influences, strengthening communication and trust, and preserving the covenant according to God’s Word.

2. BIBLE EXHORTATION

Marriage is a covenant ordained by God. Jesus declared in Matthew 19:6:

“What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”

Because marriage is precious, couples must guard their covenant carefully. Not every voice deserves access to the marriage. Not every counsel is godly. Not every friendship is beneficial. Not every outside opinion should be allowed to determine the direction of a home.

Scripture instructs believers to “prove all things; hold fast that which is good” (1 Thessalonians 5:21).

The enemy can exploit unhealthy boundaries, poor communication, unresolved conflicts, temptation, financial pressure, gossip, comparison, and destructive relationships. Therefore, husband and wife must remain spiritually alert while also exercising wisdom in their relationships.

Proverbs 4:23 says:

“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”

Today, every destructive influence attacking the marriage shall be confronted. Every ungodly counsel shall fail. Every manipulative influence shall be exposed. Every external pressure seeking to divide husband and wife shall lose its power, and the Lord shall establish wisdom, unity, faithfulness, peace, discernment, and protection over the marriage.

3. PROPHETIC ILLUSTRATION

A house with strong walls and a guarded entrance is better protected from destructive intruders.

Likewise, a marriage needs spiritual and relational boundaries. When a couple protects their communication, friendship, trust, privacy, and covenant, destructive influences have less opportunity to enter.

An outside voice may attempt to magnify a disagreement. A friend may encourage resentment. A relative may pressure a spouse to make unhealthy decisions. Social media may create unrealistic comparisons. Financial pressures may increase tension. Temptation may attempt to redirect affection.

But when husband and wife remain rooted in Christ and deliberately protect their covenant, these pressures do not have to destroy the marriage.

Prophetically, every destructive influence attacking your marriage shall be exposed and resisted. Every unhealthy influence shall lose access to your covenant, and the Lord shall establish wisdom, discernment, unity, and divine protection over your home.

4. BIBLE TEXTS

Genesis 2:24
Psalm 91:1-11
Psalm 121:7-8
Proverbs 4:23
Proverbs 13:20
Proverbs 15:22
Proverbs 18:21
Isaiah 54:17
Matthew 19:4-6
John 10:10
Romans 12:2
1 Corinthians 15:33
2 Corinthians 10:4-5
Ephesians 4:25-27
Ephesians 6:10-18
Philippians 4:6-8
Colossians 3:12-15
James 3:13-18
1 Peter 5:8-9

5. BIBLE READING

Matthew 19:4-6

Jesus teaches that marriage is God’s joining together of two people and warns against allowing human interference to destroy what God has established.

Ephesians 6:10-18

The believer is instructed to put on the whole armor of God and stand against spiritual opposition.

The passage emphasizes truth, righteousness, faith, salvation, the Word of God, prayer, and spiritual alertness.

Proverbs 4:23

“Keep thy heart with all diligence…”

A marriage must be guarded intentionally. Couples should protect their hearts, communication, relationships, decisions, and covenant from destructive influences.

Psalm 91:1-2

The psalm presents God as the believer’s refuge, fortress, and protector.

6. CONFESSION

I confess that Jesus Christ is Lord over my marriage.

My marriage belongs to God.

Every destructive external influence against my marriage shall fail.

Every ungodly counsel shall fail.

Every manipulative influence shall fail.

Every destructive friendship shall lose its power.

Every temptation designed to destroy marital faithfulness shall fail.

Every pressure designed to divide husband and wife shall fail.

Every voice speaking confusion into my marriage shall be silenced.

I reject bitterness.

I reject hatred.

I reject manipulation.

I reject unnecessary interference.

I reject every influence that contradicts the Word of God.

My spouse and I shall walk in wisdom.

We shall communicate honestly.

We shall protect our covenant.

We shall maintain healthy boundaries.

We shall resist destructive counsel.

We shall recognize ungodly influence and refuse it.

Our marriage shall remain rooted in Christ.

The blood of Jesus shall speak over our home.

The Word of God shall govern our decisions.

The Holy Spirit shall give us discernment.

No external attack shall destroy what God has established.

Our marriage shall stand.

Our home shall stand.

Our covenant shall stand.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

7. SPIRITUAL SYMPTOMS

Watch and pray against:

Constant outside interference in marital decisions.
Friends encouraging separation.
Relatives continually provoking conflict between spouses.
Secret emotional relationships outside the marriage.
Excessive comparison with other couples.
Social media creating unrealistic marital expectations.
Destructive counsel being accepted without examination.
Gossip about one’s spouse.
Third parties becoming more emotionally important than the spouse.
Financial pressure creating constant marital hostility.
Manipulation through money.
Suspicion caused by outside rumors.
Persistent pressure to abandon godly values.
Friends encouraging unfaithfulness.
Emotional dependence on people outside the marriage.
Lack of privacy between spouses.
Outsiders being given inappropriate access to marital problems.
Constant criticism of one’s spouse by outsiders.
Isolation of one spouse from the other.
Repeated attempts to undermine marital trust.

Where these patterns exist, they should be confronted through prayer, wise communication, healthy boundaries, accountability, and appropriate pastoral or professional help where necessary.

8. PROPHETIC DECLARATION

I decree that every destructive external influence against my marriage shall fail.

Every ungodly voice speaking against my covenant shall be silenced.

Every manipulative influence shall be exposed.

Every destructive counsel shall collapse.

Every unhealthy relationship threatening marital unity shall lose its influence.

Every temptation against marital faithfulness shall be resisted.

Every satanic strategy exploiting marital weaknesses shall fail.

Every external pressure designed to create separation shall be broken.

The Lord shall give my spouse and me discernment.

We shall recognize wise counsel.

We shall reject destructive counsel.

We shall recognize unhealthy influences.

We shall establish godly boundaries.

Our communication shall become stronger.

Our trust shall become deeper.

Our love shall become stronger.

Our covenant shall become more secure.

Our home shall be protected from unnecessary interference.

No weapon fashioned against our marriage shall prosper.

No outside influence shall have greater authority over our marriage than the Word of God.

The Lord shall preserve our marriage.

The Lord shall preserve our home.

The Lord shall preserve our unity.

In the name of Jesus.

9. DOS AND DON’TS

Dos

Pray together for wisdom and protection.
Establish healthy marital boundaries.
Communicate openly with your spouse.
Examine advice against Scripture.
Choose friends who respect your marriage.
Protect marital privacy.
Resolve disagreements directly and respectfully.
Be transparent about relationships that could affect trust.
Seek wise and godly counsel when necessary.
Maintain appropriate boundaries with relatives and friends.
Guard emotional intimacy.
Practice mutual accountability.
Address financial pressure together.
Protect your marriage from unhealthy comparisons.

Don’ts

Don’t allow outsiders to control your marital decisions.
Don’t share intimate marital details indiscriminately.
Don’t permit friends to insult or disrespect your spouse.
Don’t maintain secret emotional relationships.
Don’t compare your spouse with other people.
Don’t allow relatives to become permanent decision-makers in your marriage.
Don’t use outsiders to punish or manipulate your spouse.
Don’t hide serious financial or relational matters.
Don’t allow gossip to determine your opinion of your spouse.
Don’t accept every counsel simply because it comes from someone you respect.
Don’t retaliate against outside interference with hatred.
Don’t isolate yourself from all wise counsel; instead, seek trustworthy, godly, appropriate help.

10. AGGRESSIVE PRAISE & WORSHIP

Praise Jesus as the Lord and foundation of your marriage.
Thank God for preserving your marriage.
Worship God for His protection over your home.
Praise Him for exposing destructive influences.
Declare Psalm 91 over your household.
Praise God for wisdom and discernment.
Worship God for protecting marital faithfulness.
Thank God for strengthening communication between husband and wife.
Praise God for every battle He has already won.
Worship God prophetically for lasting marital unity.

Aggressive Praise Declarations

Every satanic influence attacking my marriage, catch fire, in the name of Jesus!

Every evil counsel against my marriage, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus!

Every manipulative influence seeking access to my marriage, lose your power, in the name of Jesus!

O Lord, build a wall of divine wisdom and protection around my marriage, in the name of Jesus!

Every external pressure seeking to divide husband and wife, be frustrated completely, in the name of Jesus!

11. PRAYER INSTRUCTIONS

Begin with intense praise and worship.
Read Matthew 19:4-6 and Ephesians 6:10-18.
Confess any personal weakness that has created unnecessary vulnerability.
Ask God for discernment concerning relationships and counsel.
Pray against every destructive external influence.
Pray against temptation and unfaithfulness.
Pray for wisdom in dealing with relatives, friends, colleagues, and other external relationships.
Pray for strong communication between husband and wife.
Pray for healthy marital boundaries.
End with thanksgiving and prophetic declarations over the marriage.

12. 50 MFM AGGRESSIVE WARFARE PRAYER POINTS

1.

O Lord, arise and defend my marriage against every destructive external attack, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

2.

Every satanic power seeking to use external influences to destroy my marriage, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

3.

Every ungodly counsel directed against my marriage, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

4.

Every voice encouraging hatred, separation, or divorce in my marriage, be silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

5.

Every manipulative influence seeking access to my marriage, lose your power now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

6.

Every destructive friendship assigned to weaken marital unity, be exposed and frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

7.

Every satanic influence using relatives to create unnecessary marital conflict, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

8.

Every evil counsel making my spouse and me suspicious of one another, catch fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

9.

Every power using gossip to destroy trust between husband and wife, be silenced by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

10.

Every satanic strategy using outside pressure to weaken my marriage, fail completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

11.

Every external influence encouraging my spouse or me to violate our marital covenant, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

12.

Every temptation designed to create emotional or physical unfaithfulness in my marriage, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

13.

Every satanic power introducing inappropriate emotional attachments into my marriage, lose your hold, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

14.

Every outside relationship competing with the legitimate affection and friendship of my marriage, be brought under godly order, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

15.

Every power encouraging comparison between my spouse and another person, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

16.

Every satanic influence using social pressure to create dissatisfaction within my marriage, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

17.

Every evil voice telling my spouse that another person would make a better partner, be silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

18.

Every power planting seeds of discontentment in my marriage through outside influence, dry up now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

19.

O Lord, give my spouse and me supernatural discernment to recognize destructive counsel, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

20.

Every satanic power making us accept ungodly advice against our marriage, be broken now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

21.

Every power manipulating family members against the unity of my marriage, be exposed and frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

22.

Every external pressure seeking to control decisions that belong appropriately to husband and wife, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

23.

Every spirit of unnecessary interference in my marriage, lose your power, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

24.

O Lord, establish healthy and godly boundaries around my marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

25.

Every satanic power attacking the privacy and confidentiality of my marriage, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

26.

Every evil messenger carrying distorted information between spouses, be exposed and silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

27.

Every satanic power using financial pressure to create external control over my marriage, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

28.

Every power using debt, financial stress, or material pressure to divide husband and wife, be defeated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

29.

Every satanic influence encouraging my spouse and me to turn against one another, scatter now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

30.

Every external voice magnifying the weaknesses of my spouse while hiding their strengths, be silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

31.

Every power encouraging disrespect toward my spouse, lose your hold now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

32.

Every satanic influence making outsiders more influential in my marriage than the Word of God, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

33.

O Lord, strengthen the friendship and emotional bond between my spouse and me against every unhealthy external influence, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

34.

Every power seeking to create emotional distance between husband and wife through outside relationships, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

35.

Every satanic influence attacking marital trust through rumors, accusations, and suspicion, be scattered, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

36.

Every evil counsel encouraging my spouse and me to retaliate against one another, catch fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

37.

Every power using old family conflicts to recruit outsiders against my marriage, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

38.

Every satanic agenda to make my marriage a victim of external manipulation, fail completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

39.

O Lord, make my spouse and me united in wisdom, purpose, prayer, communication, and godly decision-making, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

40.

Every external power attacking the covenant commitment between husband and wife, lose your power now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

41.

Every satanic influence promoting unfaithfulness, secrecy, deception, or double living within my marriage, be exposed and destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

42.

Every evil influence attempting to corrupt the values of my marriage, be consumed by Holy Ghost fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

43.

Every satanic power attempting to turn legitimate marital differences into permanent separation, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

44.

O Lord, surround my marriage with divine wisdom, godly counsel, discernment, peace, and protection, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

45.

Every external attack against marital affection, friendship, communication, and unity, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

46.

Every satanic influence seeking to make my spouse and me enemies, be scattered by thunder, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

47.

I decree that every destructive external influence against my marriage shall lose its power and every godly influence shall become stronger, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

48.

I decree that my marriage shall be governed by the Word of God and not by manipulation, gossip, pressure, comparison, or ungodly counsel, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

49.

Father, establish an impenetrable hedge of wisdom, discernment, faithfulness, love, unity, healthy boundaries, and peace around my marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

50.

O Lord, arise and preserve my marriage from every external attack, strange influence, ungodly counsel, destructive relationship, temptation, manipulation, confusion, and satanic interference; let our covenant remain firmly established in Christ and let no destructive influence prevail against what You have joined together, in the name of Jesus, Amen.

13. FINAL PROPHETIC DECLARATIONS

I decree that my marriage belongs to Jesus Christ.

No external influence shall have authority over my marriage beyond what is consistent with God’s Word.

Every destructive voice shall be silenced.

Every ungodly counsel shall fail.

Every manipulative influence shall be exposed.

Every destructive friendship shall lose its power.

Every temptation against marital faithfulness shall fail.

Every satanic attack against marital unity shall fail.

Every rumor shall fail.

Every false accusation shall fail.

Every destructive comparison shall fail.

Every unnecessary interference shall fail.

Every external pressure designed to divide husband and wife shall fail.

The Lord shall give my spouse and me discernment.

We shall know the difference between wise counsel and destructive counsel.

We shall recognize unhealthy influence.

We shall maintain appropriate boundaries.

We shall protect our covenant.

We shall protect our friendship.

We shall protect our communication.

We shall protect our emotional connection.

We shall protect our marital faithfulness.

Our marriage shall be rooted in Christ.

Our decisions shall be governed by wisdom.

Our conversations shall be governed by grace.

Our hearts shall be governed by love.

Our home shall be governed by peace.

No weapon fashioned against our marriage shall prosper.

No satanic strategy shall scatter us.

No destructive influence shall have the final word concerning our marriage.

The blood of Jesus shall speak for our home.

The Holy Spirit shall guide us.

The Word of God shall establish us.

Our marriage shall stand.

Our family shall stand.

Our covenant shall stand.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

14. CONCLUSION

Father, we thank You because You are the keeper and defender of our marriage.

We surrender our marriage, our home, our relationships, our decisions, and our future into Your hands.

Every external influence that is contrary to Your will, remove its destructive power.

Every ungodly counsel, expose it.

Every manipulative relationship, bring it under godly boundaries.

Every destructive friendship, remove its influence.

Every temptation, give us strength to resist.

Every rumor, expose the truth.

Every false accusation, frustrate it.

Every external pressure, give us wisdom to handle it.

Every source of unnecessary conflict, bring it to an end.

Give husband and wife wisdom to protect their covenant without becoming isolated from healthy, godly relationships.

Teach us to recognize people who genuinely strengthen our marriage and to establish appropriate boundaries with influences that undermine it.

Give us discernment to distinguish between godly correction and destructive interference.

Give us courage to reject counsel that contradicts Your Word.

Give us humility to receive wise counsel when we need it.

Let husband and wife remain united.

Let their communication remain strong.

Let their trust remain strong.

Let their affection remain strong.

Let their commitment remain strong.

Let their friendship remain strong.

Let their covenant remain strong.

Every satanic agenda against their marriage shall fail.

Every destructive influence shall lose its power.

Every external attack shall be defeated.

Let the peace of Christ rule in their hearts and home.

Let the Word of God become the final authority over their marriage.

Let the blood of Jesus speak protection over their household.

Let their marriage become a testimony that no destructive influence can overthrow what God has established.

We declare that their marriage shall stand firmly in Christ.

Their home shall be protected.

Their covenant shall be preserved.

Their love shall endure.

Their unity shall increase.

Their family shall flourish.

And Jesus Christ shall receive all the glory.