50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points for Sanctifying Your Marriage and Protecting Your Home
1. Prayer Focus
This prayer session focuses on dedicating the marriage and household to God, pursuing holiness, protecting the home through prayer, strengthening marital unity, resisting destructive influences, and establishing a Christ-centered family atmosphere.
The prayer emphasis is on:
- Consecrating the marriage to God.
- Establishing the home upon biblical principles.
- Protecting marital unity.
- Praying against destructive influences.
- Breaking ungodly patterns and habits.
- Establishing holiness and integrity within the home.
- Strengthening husband-and-wife communication.
- Protecting children from harmful influences.
- Establishing consistent family prayer.
- Removing bitterness, unforgiveness, and persistent conflict.
- Building healthy boundaries around the household.
- Guarding the family’s spiritual and relational life.
- Making the home an environment of peace, truth, love, and godly discipline.
- Seeking God’s wisdom in every family decision.
2. Bible Exhortation
Marriage is a covenant relationship that should be treated with honor, faithfulness, love, purity, and mutual responsibility.
Hebrews 13:4 teaches that marriage should be honored and the marriage bed kept pure.
Sanctifying your marriage does not mean that husband and wife become perfect. It means deliberately dedicating the relationship to God and allowing His Word to shape the way both spouses love, communicate, forgive, serve, and make decisions.
Ephesians 5:25 calls husbands to love their wives sacrificially, while Ephesians 5:21 emphasizes mutual submission in reverence for Christ.
A protected home is not merely a house surrounded by walls. It is a household where people cultivate prayer, wisdom, truth, love, forgiveness, healthy boundaries, and obedience to God.
Psalm 127:1 reminds us that unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.
Therefore, let the foundation of your marriage be Christ, let the Word of God guide your family, and let prayer become a regular part of your household life.
3. Prophetic Illustration
Imagine a garden surrounded by a carefully maintained fence.
The fence does not make the garden perfect.
It simply establishes a boundary.
Inside the garden, the plants still need water, sunlight, cultivation, pruning, and attention.
Marriage is similar.
Prayer is important.
But prayer must be accompanied by faithfulness, communication, forgiveness, wisdom, honesty, healthy boundaries, responsibility, and love.
A marriage cannot be protected by prayer while the spouses deliberately cultivate dishonesty, contempt, unfaithfulness, abuse, or persistent unforgiveness.
Today, let God strengthen the boundaries around your marriage.
Let Him expose unhealthy patterns.
Let Him give spouses grace to repent where necessary.
Let Him restore unity where possible.
Let Him protect children from harmful influences.
Let the household become increasingly dedicated to God.
4. Bible Texts
- Psalm 127:1 — The Lord building the house.
- Psalm 91:1–2 — Dwelling under God’s protection.
- Proverbs 18:22 — Marriage as a blessing.
- Hebrews 13:4 — Honoring marriage and marital purity.
- Ephesians 5:21–33 — Christ-centered marriage.
- Ephesians 6:10–18 — Spiritual strength and the armor of God.
- 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 — The character of love.
- Colossians 3:12–15 — Compassion, forgiveness, and peace.
- Proverbs 4:23 — Guarding the heart.
- Joshua 24:15 — Serving the Lord as a household.
- Deuteronomy 6:6–7 — Teaching God’s Word within the family.
- 1 Peter 3:7 — Mutual consideration in marriage.
- Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 — Strength through partnership.
- Matthew 7:24–25 — Building on the rock.
- Galatians 5:22–23 — The fruit of the Spirit.
5. Bible Reading
Psalm 127:1–5
Read this passage slowly and prayerfully.
Meditate on:
- God as the builder of the home.
- God as the protector of the household.
- The importance of depending upon God.
- The value of children.
- The responsibility of building the family wisely.
Additional Bible Reading
Ephesians 5:21–33
Pay particular attention to sacrificial love, mutual honor, commitment, and Christ-centered marriage.
6. Confession
Declare these confessions aloud:
- My marriage belongs to God.
- My household belongs to God.
- Jesus Christ is Lord over my family.
- My marriage shall be built upon biblical principles.
- I shall honor my spouse.
- I shall practice faithfulness and integrity.
- I reject bitterness and persistent unforgiveness.
- I receive grace to communicate with wisdom.
- I receive grace to forgive appropriately.
- My home shall increasingly become a place of peace.
- My family shall grow in prayer.
- My family shall grow in God’s Word.
- My children shall receive godly guidance.
- I reject destructive influences that threaten my family.
- I shall establish healthy boundaries around my household.
- I shall not deliberately compromise marital faithfulness.
- I shall seek godly wisdom when facing difficult family situations.
- The Lord shall establish the work of our hands.
- My household shall serve the Lord.
- My marriage and home shall bring glory to God.
7. Spiritual Symptoms
The following patterns may indicate that a marriage or household needs renewed spiritual and relational attention:
- Persistent marital conflict.
- Repeated disrespect between spouses.
- Unresolved bitterness.
- Persistent unforgiveness.
- Dishonesty.
- Secretive behavior.
- Breakdown in communication.
- Emotional distance.
- Neglect of marital responsibilities.
- Lack of prayer.
- Neglect of Scripture.
- Harmful external influences.
- Destructive family traditions.
- Constant hostility in the home.
- Repeated boundary violations.
- Lack of mutual support.
- Persistent resentment.
- Children being exposed to inappropriate adult conflicts.
- Excessive dependence on outside opinions.
- Repeated compromise of family values.
- Lack of shared spiritual direction.
- Persistent contempt.
- Unhealthy control or intimidation.
- Refusal to seek help when problems become serious.
- A home atmosphere dominated by fear rather than peace.
These patterns call for prayer, honest communication, repentance where appropriate, wise boundaries, pastoral or professional counsel, and practical changes.
8. Prophetic Declaration
I declare over my household:
My marriage belongs to the Lord!
My home belongs to the Lord!
Every destructive pattern fighting marital unity, break!
Every pattern of persistent bitterness, be uprooted!
Every pattern of dishonesty, scatter!
Every influence encouraging marital unfaithfulness, be resisted and destroyed!
Let the Word of God govern my marriage!
Let love govern our relationship!
Let wisdom govern our decisions!
Let forgiveness govern our conflicts!
Let truth govern our communication!
Let holiness govern our conduct!
Let peace govern our home!
Let our children receive godly instruction and protection!
Let our family prayer life increase!
Let every legitimate boundary around our household be strengthened!
Let the Lord build and establish our home!
Let our marriage become a testimony of God’s grace!
9. Dos and Don’ts
Dos
- Pray for your marriage regularly.
- Read Scripture together when practical.
- Communicate honestly.
- Practice faithfulness.
- Honor your spouse.
- Resolve conflicts constructively.
- Establish healthy boundaries.
- Protect private marital matters appropriately.
- Encourage one another.
- Spend meaningful time together.
- Teach children biblical values.
- Seek wise counsel when necessary.
- Apologize when wrong.
- Forgive where appropriate.
- Seek professional help when serious marital problems require it.
Don’ts
- Do not deliberately cultivate bitterness.
- Do not use prayer as a substitute for responsible action.
- Do not weaponize Scripture against your spouse.
- Do not use spiritual language to justify control or intimidation.
- Do not tolerate abuse under the label of “submission.”
- Do not involve children in adult marital disputes.
- Do not encourage infidelity or emotional affairs.
- Do not deliberately expose the home to destructive influences.
- Do not ignore serious relationship problems.
- Do not humiliate your spouse publicly or privately.
- Do not use threats to control family members.
- Do not refuse appropriate counseling when necessary.
- Do not allow resentment to become a permanent lifestyle.
- Do not neglect your spiritual life.
- Do not treat your spouse’s dignity as unimportant.
10. Aggressive Praise & Worship
Begin with vigorous praise and worship.
Declare:
- O Lord, I praise You because You are the builder of my household.
- I praise You because You are the source of wisdom for marriage.
- I praise You because You are able to restore broken relationships.
- I praise You because You teach us to love and forgive.
- I praise You because You give grace to live according to Your Word.
- I praise You because You protect and guide Your people.
- I praise You because You establish families according to Your purposes.
- I praise You because You give wisdom to set healthy boundaries.
- I praise You because You bring peace into troubled situations.
- I praise You because my household is under Your care.
Worship Declaration
“Lord Jesus, I dedicate my marriage and home to You. Build our household according to Your Word. Give us wisdom, purity, faithfulness, love, forgiveness, discernment, and courage to address every unhealthy pattern. Let our home increasingly reflect Your character.”
11. Prayer Instructions
- Begin with praise and thanksgiving.
- Ask God to search your heart and reveal areas requiring correction.
- Confess personal and family failures where appropriate.
- Pray for the sanctification of the marriage.
- Pray for marital faithfulness and integrity.
- Pray for unity between husband and wife.
- Pray against destructive influences.
- Pray for the protection and godly upbringing of children.
- Pray for healthy communication.
- Pray for wisdom to establish appropriate household boundaries.
- Pray against bitterness and persistent unforgiveness.
- Read the Scriptures aloud.
- Take practical steps that agree with the prayers.
- Seek appropriate pastoral or professional support for serious marital problems.
- End with thanksgiving and worship.
12. 50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points for Sanctifying Your Marriage and Protecting Your Home
1.
O Lord, arise and consecrate my marriage and household unto Yourself, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
2.
Every power fighting the godly foundation of my marriage, catch fire and perish, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
3.
Every destructive pattern threatening the peace and unity of my home, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
4.
O Lord, establish Jesus Christ as the foundation and Lord of my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
5.
Every influence drawing my family away from biblical values, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
6.
O Lord, sanctify the communication, decisions, relationships, and conduct within my marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
7.
Every power sponsoring persistent bitterness between husband and wife, catch fire and perish, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8.
Every cycle of unforgiveness operating in my marriage, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
9.
O Lord, give husband and wife grace to forgive, communicate, understand, and support one another, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10.
Every power turning small disagreements into destructive marital conflicts, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
11.
Every influence promoting dishonesty within my marriage, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12.
O Lord, establish truth, transparency, integrity, and faithfulness between husband and wife, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13.
Every influence encouraging marital unfaithfulness, be resisted and destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14.
O Lord, strengthen the covenant commitment, mutual respect, and faithfulness of husband and wife, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15.
Every power attacking the emotional connection between spouses, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
16.
O Lord, restore healthy affection, companionship, communication, and mutual care within my marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
17.
Every power using unresolved offenses to create division in my household, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
18.
O Lord, give us wisdom to address offenses promptly, honestly, compassionately, and biblically, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
19.
Every power promoting contempt, humiliation, intimidation, or destructive speech in my home, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
20.
O Lord, put a guard over our mouths and teach us to speak words that build rather than destroy, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
21.
Every harmful external influence seeking to undermine my marriage, be cut off by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
22.
O Lord, give my household discernment to recognize unhealthy influences and wisdom to establish appropriate boundaries, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
23.
Every destructive family pattern being repeated in my household, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
24.
O Lord, help my family replace unhealthy patterns with biblical principles and godly habits, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
25.
Every power attacking the prayer life of my household, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
26.
O Lord, establish consistent prayer and worship within my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
27.
Every power fighting family Bible study and spiritual growth, catch fire and perish, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
28.
O Lord, let Your Word dwell richly in my marriage and household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
29.
Every power exposing my children to destructive influences, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
30.
O Lord, give parents wisdom to protect, teach, discipline, encourage, and guide their children according to Your Word, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
31.
Every power using family conflict to create fear and insecurity in the hearts of our children, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
32.
O Lord, establish peace, security, love, discipline, and godly order in my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
33.
Every power attacking the integrity and reputation of my household, catch fire and perish, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
34.
O Lord, make my family a testimony of honesty, faithfulness, love, righteousness, and godly character, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
35.
Every power promoting financial irresponsibility and secrecy that threatens marital peace, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
36.
O Lord, give husband and wife wisdom to manage family resources with honesty, unity, discipline, and responsibility, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
37.
Every power attacking the peace of my home through unnecessary hostility and confusion, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
38.
O Lord, let the peace of Christ rule in every heart and relationship within my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
39.
Every power promoting unhealthy control, intimidation, manipulation, or coercion in my marriage, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
40.
O Lord, establish mutual honor, dignity, safety, respect, and healthy boundaries between every member of my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
41.
Every power fighting the legitimate unity and cooperation of husband and wife, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
42.
O Lord, make husband and wife genuine partners in prayer, parenting, decision-making, and family responsibilities, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
43.
Every power attacking the spiritual atmosphere of my home, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
44.
O Lord, fill my household with the fruit of the Spirit and the wisdom that comes from You, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
45.
Every power fighting holiness, purity, truth, and righteousness in my household, catch fire and perish, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
46.
O Lord, give every member of my family grace to repent quickly, forgive sincerely, and return to Your ways when we go astray, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
47.
Every power seeking to destroy the peace and stability of my household, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
48.
O Lord, build a strong spiritual hedge around my household through prayer, wisdom, obedience, and godly living, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
49.
I decree that my marriage shall be increasingly characterized by faithfulness, love, holiness, truth, mutual honor, prayer, and peace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
50.
O Lord, arise and establish my marriage and household as a consecrated, Christ-centered, peaceful, protected, righteous, united, and fruitful family that brings glory to Your name, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13. Closing Warfare Prayer
O Lord, arise and build my household according to Your Word.
Every power fighting the sanctification of my marriage, catch fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every destructive pattern attacking marital unity, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every pattern of bitterness and unforgiveness, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every influence promoting dishonesty and unfaithfulness, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every influence attacking peace within my household, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Father, establish love and faithfulness between husband and wife, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Give us wisdom to communicate with honor and patience, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Give us grace to forgive sincerely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Give us courage to repent where we have done wrong, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Give us wisdom to establish healthy boundaries around our marriage and household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Protect our children from harmful influences, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Give parents wisdom to raise their children according to Your Word, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Let prayer and Scripture become established within our household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every power attacking our spiritual unity, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every destructive family pattern, be uprooted, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Let truth and integrity govern our household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Let purity and faithfulness govern our marriage, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Let peace govern our home, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Let love govern our relationships, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Let wisdom govern our decisions, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Let the fruit of the Spirit become increasingly evident in our household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
I decree that my home shall not be governed by bitterness, dishonesty, persistent conflict, manipulation, intimidation, or destructive influences, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
I decree that my marriage shall increasingly reflect Christ-centered love, mutual honor, faithfulness, holiness, wisdom, and peace, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
I decree that my household belongs to the Lord and shall serve Him faithfully, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14. Conclusion
Sanctifying a marriage begins with dedicating the relationship to God and allowing His Word to shape everyday conduct.
Prayer is powerful, but a sanctified marriage also requires faithful action.
Husbands and wives should pursue honesty, mutual honor, patience, forgiveness, communication, faithfulness, responsibility, and appropriate boundaries.
Parents should protect children from harmful adult conflicts while teaching them God’s Word through both instruction and example.
A protected home is not a home where no difficulty ever occurs. It is a home that continually turns toward God when difficulties arise.
Therefore:
Pray together.
Read Scripture together.
Communicate honestly.
Forgive appropriately.
Protect your marriage boundaries.
Honor one another.
Raise children with wisdom.
Seek help when serious problems arise.
Refuse destructive patterns.
Keep Christ at the center.
Declare boldly:
“My marriage belongs to the Lord. My household belongs to the Lord. We shall build our home upon the Word of God. Our marriage shall be marked by faithfulness, holiness, love, truth, mutual honor, patience, forgiveness, wisdom, and peace. Every destructive pattern shall be confronted and broken. Every unhealthy influence shall be resisted. Our children shall receive godly guidance and protection. Our home shall be a place of prayer, worship, truth, safety, love, and righteousness. The Lord shall build our household, establish our marriage, guide our decisions, and make our family a blessing to generations, in the name of Jesus, Amen.”
Amen and Amen.
