50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points for Teamwork Spirit in Families and Victory Over Selfishness
1. Prayer Title
50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points for Teamwork Spirit in Families and Victory Over Selfishness
Theme Scripture
“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9
2. Prayer Focus
This prayer programme is focused on breaking the power of selfishness, pride, unnecessary competition, disunity, jealousy, stubbornness, resentment, unhealthy individualism, and family division, while releasing the grace for teamwork, cooperation, sacrificial love, mutual support, unity, understanding, and shared responsibility.
The objective is for every member of the family to recognize that a godly family should function as a team rather than as disconnected individuals fighting against one another.
We are praying for:
- Unity of purpose.
- Unity of heart.
- Unity in decision-making.
- Mutual respect.
- Willingness to serve one another.
- Grace to carry one another’s burdens.
- Freedom from selfish ambition.
- Victory over jealousy and competition.
- Wisdom in resolving disagreements.
- Restoration of broken family relationships.
- A family culture of prayer and cooperation.
- The grace to celebrate one another’s victories.
- The destruction of every spiritual pattern promoting division.
3. Bible Exhortation
A family becomes stronger when its members understand that everyone has a role to play.
A body cannot function effectively when every part fights against another part. Likewise, a family cannot flourish when every member is concerned only about personal comfort, personal recognition, personal money, personal achievements, or personal opinions.
Philippians 2:3–4 gives a powerful principle:
“Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.”
This does not mean that a person should become worthless or permit exploitation. It means that selfish ambition should not become the governing principle of family life.
Galatians 6:2 says:
“Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”
Teamwork requires willingness to carry one another.
When one member is weak, another can strengthen them. When one is discouraged, another can encourage them. When one succeeds, everyone can celebrate. When there is a problem, the family can face it together.
The enemy seeks to turn family members into competitors, accusers, strangers, or enemies. But God’s desire is for the family to operate in love, unity, wisdom, cooperation, and mutual support.
Our warfare is therefore not against family members. We confront the spiritual influences and ungodly patterns that produce division, selfishness, hatred, jealousy, and strife.
4. Prophetic Illustration
Consider a group of people attempting to move a heavy object.
If everyone pulls in a different direction, the object barely moves. Each person may be strong individually, but their strength becomes ineffective because there is no agreement.
But when everyone pulls in the same direction, even a difficult burden becomes manageable.
That is the power of teamwork.
A family may have intelligent people, talented people, hardworking people, successful people, and spiritually gifted people. But without unity, their individual strengths can become sources of competition instead of blessing.
The Lord is bringing families from:
“Me” to “us.”
From:
“What do I gain?” to “How can I contribute?”
From:
“Who is greater?” to “How can we build together?”
From:
competition to cooperation.
From:
selfishness to sacrificial love.
May every family represented in these prayers receive the grace to work together according to God’s purpose.
5. Bible Texts
Use these Scriptures for meditation and warfare:
- Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 — Strength through partnership.
- Psalm 133:1–3 — The blessing of unity.
- Genesis 13:8 — Avoiding strife among family members.
- Joshua 24:15 — Family commitment to serving God.
- Proverbs 15:1 — A soft answer turns away wrath.
- Proverbs 16:18 — The danger of pride.
- Proverbs 17:17 — Family love and loyalty.
- Proverbs 18:21 — The power of words.
- Matthew 5:9 — Blessed are the peacemakers.
- Matthew 18:19–20 — Agreement in prayer.
- Romans 12:10 — Honoring one another.
- Romans 12:18 — Pursuing peace.
- Romans 12:16 — Living in harmony.
- 1 Corinthians 1:10 — Unity and agreement.
- 1 Corinthians 12:12–27 — One body with many members.
- Galatians 5:13 — Serving one another in love.
- Galatians 6:2 — Bearing one another’s burdens.
- Ephesians 4:2–3 — Keeping the unity of the Spirit.
- Philippians 2:3–4 — Rejecting selfish ambition.
- Colossians 3:12–15 — Compassion, forgiveness, love, and peace.
6. Bible Reading
Philippians 2:1–5
“Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.
Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus.”
Meditation
The mind of Christ is the opposite of selfish ambition.
Jesus demonstrated sacrificial love, humility, service, and obedience.
Therefore, pray:
“Lord, let the mind of Christ govern the way I treat my family.”
7. Confession
I confess that my family belongs to God. I confess that selfishness shall not rule my heart. Pride shall not control my decisions. Jealousy shall not determine my attitude. Competition shall not destroy my relationships.
I receive the grace to love, serve, support, encourage, forgive, cooperate, and work together with my family members.
I refuse to be an instrument of division. I refuse to sow discord. I refuse to rejoice at the failure of another family member. I refuse to allow selfish ambition to control me.
Every ungodly pattern of family division is broken. Every pattern of unnecessary competition is broken. Every spirit of jealousy and resentment is broken.
My family shall operate in love, unity, wisdom, cooperation, understanding, and peace.
We shall bear one another’s burdens. We shall celebrate one another’s victories. We shall pray for one another. We shall build together.
The mind of Christ shall govern my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8. Spiritual Symptoms
The following patterns may indicate that selfishness, division, or unhealthy competition has taken root in a family:
- Constant arguments over money and possessions.
- Family members refusing to cooperate.
- Excessive competition among siblings.
- Jealousy over another person’s success.
- Resentment when another family member is honored.
- Refusal to help one another.
- Keeping score of every favor.
- “Nobody helped me, so I will not help them” mentality.
- Persistent pride and stubbornness.
- Family members refusing to apologize.
- Constant accusations and blame.
- Deliberate withholding of information.
- Fighting over inheritance or possessions.
- Unhealthy favoritism.
- Gossip and backbiting within the family.
- Celebrating another person’s failure.
- Refusing to celebrate another person’s success.
- Lack of shared family goals.
- One person carrying every responsibility.
- Persistent resentment over perceived unfairness.
- Manipulation for personal advantage.
- Refusal to sacrifice for the good of the family.
- Unwillingness to forgive.
- Family members treating one another as competitors.
- Lack of prayer and spiritual cooperation.
These patterns should be addressed through prayer, repentance, honest communication, wisdom, healthy boundaries, and appropriate counsel.
9. Aggressive Praise & Worship
Begin the prayer session with vigorous praise.
Lord, I worship You because You are the God of my family!
You are the God who makes families dwell together in unity!
You are the God of restoration!
You are the God of peace!
You are the God who breaks chains!
You are the God who destroys the works of the enemy!
I magnify Your holy name!
I bless You because selfishness shall not destroy my family!
I bless You because division shall not have the final word!
I bless You because Your wisdom shall prevail!
I bless You because Your love shall prevail!
I bless You because Your purpose for my family shall stand!
Every power of family division, break!
Every power of selfishness, break!
Every power of jealousy, break!
Every power of strife, break!
Every power of destructive competition, break!
Let the fire of the Holy Ghost consume every ungodly pattern working against family unity, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10. Prayer Instructions
- Begin with worship and thanksgiving.
- Repent of selfishness, pride, jealousy, bitterness, and unforgiveness.
- Read the Scriptures aloud.
- Ask God to reveal any selfish pattern in your own heart.
- Pray aggressively against spiritual influences promoting family division.
- Do not treat your family members as the enemy.
- Pray for yourself as seriously as you pray for others.
- Ask God for grace to serve rather than always demanding to be served.
- Pray for wisdom in handling money, responsibilities, inheritance, and family decisions.
- Pray for reconciliation where reconciliation is appropriate.
- Maintain healthy boundaries where necessary.
- Do not use prayer to manipulate family members.
- End with thanksgiving and prophetic declarations.
- Practice teamwork after praying for teamwork.
11. 50 MFM Deliverance Prayer Points
1.
O Lord, arise and deliver my family from every power of selfishness, pride, jealousy, and division, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
2.
Every spirit of selfish ambition operating in my family, be consumed by the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
3.
Every power turning family members into competitors instead of cooperators, be destroyed by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
4.
O Lord, baptize every member of my family with the grace to love, serve, support, and cooperate with one another, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
5.
Every satanic seed of jealousy planted in my family, be uprooted by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
6.
Every power feeding resentment whenever another family member succeeds, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
7.
Every spirit of “me, myself, and I” operating in my family, lose your grip, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8.
O Lord, destroy every pattern of family members working against one another instead of working together, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
9.
Every power of pride preventing family members from apologizing and reconciling, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10.
Father, give my family the humility to acknowledge wrong, seek forgiveness, and make necessary corrections, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
11.
Every spirit of unnecessary competition among siblings and relatives, be consumed by the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12.
Every power causing family members to rejoice over one another’s failure, be uprooted from our midst, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13.
O Lord, deliver my heart from envy and teach me to celebrate the blessings of others, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14.
Every power turning family blessings into sources of jealousy and conflict, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15.
Every evil pattern of withholding help from family members out of selfishness, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
16.
Father, give us the grace to bear one another’s burdens with love and wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
17.
Every spirit of greed operating through family relationships, be destroyed by the fire of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
18.
Every power turning family discussions into battles for control, be silenced by the power of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
19.
O Lord, destroy every spirit of stubbornness that prevents cooperation in my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
20.
Every power causing family members to insist on having their own way at all costs, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
21.
Father, give us wisdom to make family decisions through prayer, understanding, consultation, and agreement, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
22.
Every power of strife operating in my family, come under the judgment of God and depart, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
23.
Every satanic agenda to scatter my family through selfishness, jealousy, and misunderstanding, fail completely, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
24.
O Lord, let the spirit of cooperation replace the spirit of competition in my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
25.
Every evil pattern of comparison among family members, break by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
26.
I reject every temptation to measure my worth against the achievements of another family member, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
27.
Father, teach us to honor one another without partiality, unhealthy favoritism, or jealousy, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
28.
Every power using past family offences to maintain present division, be broken by the blood of Jesus, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
29.
Every root of bitterness in my heart against any family member, be uprooted by the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
30.
O Lord, give me grace to forgive without abandoning wisdom and healthy boundaries, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
31.
Every power of gossip, backbiting, slander, and destructive communication within my family, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
32.
Father, let every word spoken in anger that has created division be overcome by Your mercy and healing, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
33.
Every power turning family members against one another through lies and misinformation, be exposed and frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
34.
O Lord, establish truthful, respectful, and loving communication within my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
35.
Every power of unhealthy favoritism creating resentment among family members, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
36.
Father, give parents wisdom to raise children without planting seeds of jealousy, comparison, or unnecessary rivalry, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
37.
Every power of sibling rivalry becoming destructive and divisive, be consumed by the fire of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
38.
O Lord, teach every member of my family to use their gifts for the benefit of the whole family and not merely for personal glory, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
39.
Every power causing family members to compete for recognition, attention, or approval, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
40.
Father, give my family the grace to serve one another without demanding constant recognition, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
41.
Every spirit of entitlement operating in my family, be uprooted by the power of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
42.
Every power making family members believe that they owe nobody anything, be broken by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
43.
O Lord, restore genuine love, compassion, loyalty, cooperation, and mutual support among family members, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
44.
Every satanic pattern of isolation and withdrawal designed to weaken family unity, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
45.
Father, make my family a united spiritual team that prays together, plans together, supports one another, and pursues Your will together, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
46.
Every power attacking family unity through selfishness and pride, receive divine judgment and be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
47.
O Lord, give us one heart and one purpose concerning everything that agrees with Your will for our family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
48.
Every stronghold of division that has survived previous prayers, collapse completely by the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
49.
Father, let the love of Christ become the governing force in every family relationship, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
50.
O Lord, arise and establish supernatural teamwork, unity, humility, sacrificial love, mutual support, peace, and godly cooperation in my family; let every power of selfishness and division be completely destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12. Prophetic Declarations
I declare that selfishness shall not rule my family.
I declare that pride shall not destroy our relationships.
I declare that jealousy shall not determine our attitudes toward one another.
I declare that destructive competition is coming to an end.
My family shall learn to work together.
My family shall support one another.
My family shall celebrate one another.
My family shall pray for one another.
My family shall carry one another’s burdens with wisdom and love.
The spirit of cooperation shall replace the spirit of competition.
The spirit of humility shall replace pride.
The spirit of love shall replace bitterness.
The spirit of peace shall replace strife.
The spirit of unity shall replace division.
Every satanic agenda to scatter my family shall fail.
Every power sowing discord among us shall be frustrated.
Every root of jealousy shall be uprooted.
Every root of selfishness shall be uprooted.
Every root of resentment shall be uprooted.
Every destructive family pattern shall be broken.
The mind of Christ shall operate in my family.
Wisdom shall govern our decisions.
Love shall govern our communication.
Humility shall govern our relationships.
God shall establish my family as a team for His glory, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13. Dos and Don’ts
Dos
- Do pray for unity consistently.
- Do examine your own heart for selfishness.
- Do celebrate family members when they succeed.
- Do communicate honestly and respectfully.
- Do share responsibilities fairly.
- Do listen before responding.
- Do forgive genuine offences.
- Do encourage one another.
- Do seek agreement on important family matters.
- Do appreciate the contributions of others.
- Do pray together when appropriate.
- Do seek wise counsel when serious disputes arise.
- Do maintain healthy boundaries where necessary.
- Do teach children cooperation rather than destructive competition.
Don’ts
- Don’t use spiritual warfare prayers to attack family members.
- Don’t manipulate people in the name of prayer.
- Don’t use money or possessions to control relatives.
- Don’t constantly compare siblings or relatives.
- Don’t celebrate another person’s failure.
- Don’t spread family secrets unnecessarily.
- Don’t weaponize past mistakes.
- Don’t refuse to apologize because of pride.
- Don’t demand your own way in every matter.
- Don’t mistake cooperation for allowing exploitation.
- Don’t enable abusive or destructive behavior in the name of family unity.
- Don’t allow bitterness to become a permanent family culture.
- Don’t make every disagreement a spiritual battle against a person.
14. Final Warfare Prayer
O Lord my Father, arise in Your mighty power and visit my family with deliverance, restoration, unity, wisdom, and peace. Every power promoting selfishness, pride, jealousy, competition, bitterness, resentment, and division in my family, be consumed by the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every satanic strategy designed to turn family members against one another, fail completely. Every evil pattern making us compete instead of cooperate, break. Every power making us celebrate one another’s failure instead of success, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Father, purge selfishness from my heart. Purge pride from my heart. Purge envy from my heart. Purge resentment from my heart. Give me the mind of Christ and teach me to serve with humility and wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every root of sibling rivalry, uproot now. Every root of jealousy, uproot now. Every root of greed, uproot now. Every root of entitlement, uproot now. Every root of bitterness, uproot now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
O Lord, let every family member understand that we are stronger when we cooperate according to Your will. Give us grace to listen to one another, respect one another, support one another, forgive one another, and build together, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every power manipulating family communication through lies, gossip, suspicion, and misunderstanding, be silenced by the blood of Jesus, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Father, heal every wound that has produced division among us. Give us wisdom to address difficult matters. Give us humility to apologize. Give us grace to forgive. Give us courage to speak truth. Give us discernment to establish appropriate boundaries, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every satanic agenda against family unity, scatter by fire! Every evil counsel against family cooperation, scatter by fire! Every power of strife, break! Every power of selfishness, break! Every power of destructive competition, break! Every power of resentment, break! In the name of Jesus, Amen.
O Lord, establish a new culture in my family—a culture of prayer, love, teamwork, service, respect, responsibility, generosity, cooperation, wisdom, and mutual support, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
I declare that we shall not pull against one another. We shall build together. We shall pray together. We shall support one another. We shall celebrate one another. We shall pursue godly purpose together, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Every stronghold of division that has survived previous prayers, collapse completely now. Every ancient pattern of selfishness and rivalry operating in the family, be broken by the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Father, make every member of my family a blessing to the others. Where one is weak, let another strengthen. Where one is discouraged, let another encourage. Where one succeeds, let the others celebrate. Where there is disagreement, let wisdom prevail, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Let the peace of God rule in our hearts. Let the love of Christ bind us together. Let wisdom guide our decisions. Let humility govern our relationships. Let truth govern our communication. Let Your perfect will govern our family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
O Lord, turn our family from a collection of competing individuals into a united team pursuing Your purpose. Let every power of selfishness lose its authority. Let every power of division lose its influence. Let every destructive family pattern come to an end, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
I cover my family with the blood of Jesus. I declare that no weapon formed against our unity and godly purpose shall prosper. Every counsel contrary to God’s will shall fail. The purpose of God for my family shall stand, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Thank You, Lord, because You are the Builder of families. Thank You because You are restoring what has been damaged. Thank You because You are teaching us to love, serve, cooperate, forgive, and build together. Let all glory belong to You, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15. Conclusion
A strong family is not built merely by having talented or successful individuals. It is built when those individuals learn to love, cooperate, sacrifice, communicate, forgive, serve, and pursue godly purpose together.
The enemy seeks to turn family members into competitors, but God desires unity.
The answer to selfishness is not merely human discipline; it is the transformation of the heart through the grace of God and the cultivation of the mind of Christ.
Therefore, continue to pray against every destructive pattern while also practicing the principles you are asking God to establish.
Let the family move from selfishness to service, from competition to cooperation, from jealousy to celebration, from division to unity, from pride to humility, and from strife to peace.
May the Lord establish every family represented in these prayers as a united, prayerful, loving, wise, and cooperative household, walking together in the purpose of God, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
