50 MFM WARFARE PRAYER POINTS FOR DIVINE MENTORSHIP AND DESTINY COACHING FOR EVERY FAMILY MEMBER
1. PRAYER FOCUS
Theme: Divine Mentorship and Destiny Coaching for Every Family Member
This prayer programme is focused on asking God to connect every member of the family with godly mentors, wise counsellors, mature spiritual examples and legitimate destiny helpers who will provide sound guidance, correction, encouragement, wisdom and direction.
The prayer also confronts every satanic influence promoting wrong counsel, destructive mentorship, ungodly associations, manipulation, confusion, deception, pride, isolation, misplaced loyalty and misguided decisions.
The goal is for every family member to receive the right guidance at the right time and develop the wisdom, character and discipline required to fulfil legitimate God-given purpose.
2. BIBLE EXHORTATION
God never intended that people should navigate every season of life without wisdom or guidance.
Proverbs 11:14 declares:
“Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.”
The right counsel can preserve a destiny.
Moses had Jethro.
Joshua had Moses.
Elisha had Elijah.
Timothy had Paul.
Ruth received wise direction from Naomi.
Apollos benefited from the instruction of Priscilla and Aquila.
These relationships demonstrate the value of godly mentorship, instruction and spiritual development.
However, not every voice should become a voice of authority in our lives.
Rehoboam rejected the counsel of experienced elders and followed the advice of his peers, with disastrous consequences.
Therefore, we need not merely more voices, but the right voices.
The Holy Spirit must help every family member distinguish between:
- wise counsel and foolish counsel,
- correction and manipulation,
- mentorship and control,
- encouragement and flattery,
- genuine opportunity and deception,
- godly influence and destructive influence.
The purpose of divine mentorship is not to replace personal responsibility or one’s relationship with God. Rather, godly mentors help people develop wisdom, character, skill and discernment.
We therefore pray:
“Lord, connect every member of my family with the right people, disconnect us from destructive influences, and give us wisdom to recognize the difference.”
3. PROPHETIC ILLUSTRATION
Consider a young tree planted in a garden.
The tree has potential, but it still needs proper care, pruning, support and direction while it grows.
A skilled gardener understands how to guide its development without destroying its natural growth.
Likewise, a mentor does not live another person’s life for them.
A godly mentor helps another person:
- recognize strengths,
- identify weaknesses,
- learn from mistakes,
- develop discipline,
- recognize opportunities,
- avoid unnecessary dangers,
- build character,
- develop useful skills,
- and pursue legitimate purpose wisely.
The prophetic picture is:
Every family member is coming under healthy, godly influence.
The confused shall receive wisdom.
The inexperienced shall receive instruction.
The discouraged shall receive encouragement.
The gifted shall receive development.
The young shall receive guidance.
The mature shall receive wisdom for greater responsibility.
And every destructive influence shall lose its authority.
4. BIBLE TEXTS
- Proverbs 11:14 — Safety through wise counsel.
- Proverbs 12:15 — The importance of counsel.
- Proverbs 13:20 — Walking with wise people.
- Proverbs 15:22 — Plans established through counsel.
- Proverbs 19:20 — Hearing counsel and receiving instruction.
- Proverbs 24:6 — Victory through wise counsel.
- Proverbs 27:17 — Iron sharpening iron.
- Psalm 1:1–3 — Choosing righteous influence.
- Exodus 18:17–24 — Jethro’s counsel to Moses.
- 1 Samuel 3:8–10 — Eli helping Samuel recognize God’s voice.
- 1 Kings 19:19–21 — Elijah and Elisha.
- 2 Kings 2:1–15 — Elisha following Elijah.
- Ruth 3:1–5 — Naomi guiding Ruth.
- Acts 18:24–28 — Priscilla and Aquila instructing Apollos.
- 2 Timothy 1:5–7 — Timothy’s spiritual development.
- 2 Timothy 2:1–2 — Passing truth to faithful people.
- Titus 2:1–8 — Older believers teaching younger believers.
- Philippians 4:9 — Learning from godly examples.
5. BIBLE READING
Proverbs 15:22
“Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established.”
Read this verse slowly and prayerfully.
Additional Reading
2 Timothy 2:1–2
Pay particular attention to the principle of receiving truth and passing it faithfully to others.
Family Declaration After Reading
“O Lord, give every member of my family access to wise, godly and trustworthy counsel. Give us discernment to recognize the right mentors. Deliver us from destructive influence. Give us humility to learn, wisdom to apply instruction and courage to reject counsel that contradicts Your Word. Let our legitimate purposes be established through godly wisdom, in the name of Jesus.”
6. CONFESSION
Declare boldly:
- Jesus Christ is Lord over my family.
- God is the ultimate source of our wisdom.
- The Holy Spirit guides our decisions.
- We receive wisdom from God.
- We receive discernment.
- We receive understanding.
- We shall recognize godly mentors.
- We shall recognize destructive influence.
- We shall not follow foolish counsel.
- We shall not be controlled by ungodly voices.
- We shall learn from wise people.
- We shall remain teachable.
- We shall receive correction with humility.
- We shall develop godly character.
- We shall develop our legitimate gifts.
- We shall make wise decisions.
- We shall choose healthy relationships.
- We shall become positive influences to others.
- Our children shall receive godly guidance.
- Our family shall fulfil legitimate God-given purpose.
7. SPIRITUAL SYMPTOMS TO PRAY AGAINST
Pray against persistent patterns such as:
- Repeatedly following harmful advice.
- Constantly choosing destructive relationships.
- Rejecting wise correction.
- Pride that prevents learning.
- Dependence on unreliable voices.
- Confusion concerning major decisions.
- Repeatedly making avoidable mistakes.
- Isolation from healthy counsel.
- Excessive dependence on peer approval.
- Being easily manipulated.
- Following people simply because they are popular.
- Refusing accountability.
- Repeatedly ignoring experienced advice.
- Unhealthy loyalty to destructive relationships.
- Lack of positive role models.
- Difficulty recognizing legitimate opportunities.
- Repeatedly abandoning useful guidance.
- Poor decision-making patterns.
- Fear of seeking help.
- Persistent lack of direction concerning legitimate goals.
These patterns should be addressed through prayer, Scripture, wise counsel, education, healthy accountability and appropriate professional guidance where necessary.
8. PROPHETIC DECLARATIONS
I declare over my family:
- We shall walk with the wise.
- We shall not be trapped by foolish counsel.
- We shall recognize godly mentors.
- We shall recognize unhealthy influence.
- We shall receive wisdom at the right time.
- We shall receive correction with humility.
- We shall develop godly character.
- We shall develop our legitimate abilities.
- We shall make wise decisions.
- We shall not be manipulated by people.
- We shall not idolize human mentors.
- Christ shall remain our ultimate foundation.
- The Holy Spirit shall guide our discernment.
- Our children shall have wise examples.
- Our young adults shall have healthy guidance.
- Our parents shall receive wisdom for family leadership.
- Every family member shall have appropriate support for legitimate goals.
- Our purposes shall be established through wise counsel.
- Our mistakes shall become opportunities for growth.
- Our family shall become a source of wise counsel to others.
- We shall raise future mentors.
- We shall raise responsible leaders.
- We shall fulfil legitimate God-given assignments.
- We shall not be diverted by destructive influence.
- Our family shall walk in wisdom and purpose.
9. AGGRESSIVE PRAISE & WORSHIP
Praise Scriptures
Proverbs 2:6
“For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.”
James 1:5
“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God…”
Praise Declarations
Praise God because:
- He gives wisdom freely.
- He can direct our steps.
- He can bring the right people into our lives.
- He can expose deception.
- He can teach us through Scripture.
- He can use mature believers to strengthen us.
- He can transform our mistakes into lessons.
Aggressive Praise
Clap your hands and declare:
“My family shall walk in wisdom! My family shall walk in understanding! My family shall walk with the wise! Every foolish association shall lose its power! Every destructive voice shall be silenced! Every satanic counsel against our destiny shall scatter!”
Then declare:
“Holy Ghost, lead us! Holy Ghost, teach us! Holy Ghost, correct us! Holy Ghost, direct us! Holy Ghost, connect us with the right people!”
Praise the Lord vigorously and thank Him for divine guidance.
10. PRAYER INSTRUCTIONS
- Begin with repentance and surrender to Jesus Christ.
- Read Proverbs 15:22 aloud.
- Read 2 Timothy 2:1–2 aloud.
- Praise God for every healthy mentor and positive influence already present.
- Pray for each family member individually.
- Ask God for wisdom to recognize healthy mentorship.
- Pray against destructive influence without targeting specific individuals with hatred or revenge.
- Pray for humility to receive correction.
- Pray for discernment to reject manipulation and ungodly counsel.
- End by asking God to make every family member a wise and positive influence on others.
11. 50 MFM WARFARE PRAYER POINTS
1.
O Lord, arise and connect every member of my family with the right godly mentors and counsellors, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
2.
Every satanic power assigned to connect my family with destructive mentors, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
3.
Every evil influence masquerading as mentorship in the lives of my family members, be exposed and frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
4.
Every power assigned to make my family follow foolish counsel, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
5.
O Lord, give every member of my family supernatural discernment to recognize wise counsel, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
6.
Every satanic voice speaking contrary to God’s legitimate purpose for my family, be silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
7.
Every power using wrong associations to divert my family from legitimate purpose, scatter now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
8.
Every spirit of confusion attacking our ability to recognize wise direction, be destroyed by Holy Ghost fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
9.
O Lord, raise trustworthy, mature and godly people to guide every member of my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
10.
Every power assigned to isolate my family from healthy counsel, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
11.
Every satanic programme of destructive influence operating around my children, be cancelled, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12.
O Lord, surround our children with wise, responsible and godly examples, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
13.
Every power using ungodly peer influence to derail my children, be scattered by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
14.
Every destructive friendship assigned against the legitimate development of my children, lose your influence now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
15.
O Lord, give our children grace to recognize wisdom and courage to reject destructive pressure, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
16.
Every power attacking the teachable spirit of my family members, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
17.
Every spirit of pride resisting correction and instruction, come out and perish, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
18.
O Lord, give every member of my household humility to learn from appropriate and trustworthy people, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
19.
Every satanic power making my family reject valuable instruction, be broken now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
20.
Every power causing repeated mistakes through refusal to receive wise counsel, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
21.
O Lord, give every family member wisdom to distinguish between genuine mentorship and manipulation, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
22.
Every power assigned to manipulate my family through false promises and deceptive counsel, be exposed and frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
23.
Every satanic voice promoting fear, confusion and hopelessness concerning our legitimate future, be silenced, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
24.
O Lord, send the right teachers, coaches, mentors, counsellors and role models to every member of my family, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
25.
Every power assigned to make our legitimate helpers miss us, be frustrated, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
26.
Every satanic obstruction against healthy mentorship relationships, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
27.
O Lord, give our family wisdom to recognize people whose values, character and counsel are worthy of trust, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
28.
Every power assigning deceptive voices to advise my family concerning important decisions, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
29.
Every spirit of stubbornness preventing my family from learning from experience and correction, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
30.
O Lord, make every member of my family teachable, discerning, humble and wise, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
31.
Every satanic power attacking the development of our legitimate gifts and skills, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
32.
O Lord, connect every family member with people who will help develop their legitimate skills, character and wisdom, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
33.
Every power assigned to make our family choose popularity over wisdom, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
34.
Every evil counsel encouraging destructive choices in my family, be cancelled, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
35.
O Lord, let Your Word become the standard by which every counsel received by my family is tested, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
36.
Every satanic influence attempting to replace the voice of God with the voice of ungodly people, scatter now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
37.
Every power creating unhealthy dependence upon human beings instead of dependence upon God, be broken, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
38.
O Lord, give every family member balance, wisdom and discernment in every mentorship relationship, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
39.
Every power turning mentorship into manipulation, control or exploitation, be exposed and destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
40.
O Lord, give parents wisdom to mentor their children with love, truth, discipline and godly example, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
41.
Every generational pattern of foolish decision-making in my family, break now, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
42.
Every satanic power assigned to repeat destructive mistakes from one generation to another, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
43.
O Lord, let the wisdom of righteous generations flow into our family through healthy relationships, instruction and example, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
44.
Every power attacking the ability of my family members to learn from godly examples, be paralysed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
45.
O Lord, raise my family members to become wise mentors, teachers and positive examples to others, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
46.
Every power assigned to make my family receive counsel that destroys legitimate destiny assignments, be silenced permanently, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
47.
Every satanic network of destructive influence surrounding my family, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
48.
O Lord, establish divine wisdom, discernment and accountability in every major decision made by my household, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
49.
Every power assigned to disconnect my family from legitimate helpers, teachers, mentors and counsellors, be destroyed, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
50.
O Lord, arise and establish every member of my family in divine mentorship and wise destiny development; connect us with trustworthy and godly guidance, disconnect us from destructive influence, sharpen our discernment, make us teachable and courageous, and establish every legitimate God-given assignment through wisdom and righteous counsel, in the name of Jesus, Amen.
12. DOS AND DON’TS
DO
- Do seek God’s wisdom first.
- Do study Scripture before accepting counsel.
- Do evaluate mentors by character as well as competence.
- Do remain teachable.
- Do ask questions.
- Do accept appropriate correction.
- Do seek counsel before major decisions.
- Do encourage children to develop healthy relationships with trustworthy adults.
- Do maintain appropriate boundaries.
- Do respect confidentiality.
- Do cultivate accountability.
- Do become a positive example to younger family members.
- Do allow mentors to challenge you constructively.
- Do pray for discernment concerning every relationship.
DON’T
- Don’t idolize a mentor.
- Don’t surrender your personal responsibility to another person.
- Don’t follow advice simply because the adviser is popular.
- Don’t ignore Scripture because someone claims special authority.
- Don’t permit manipulation or coercion.
- Don’t allow unhealthy dependency.
- Don’t blindly follow every prophetic or spiritual claim.
- Don’t expose children to unsafe or inappropriate relationships.
- Don’t conceal serious misconduct for the sake of preserving a mentorship relationship.
- Don’t reject correction simply because it is uncomfortable.
- Don’t confuse charisma with character.
- Don’t use mentorship as a substitute for your personal relationship with God.
13. FINAL FAMILY DECLARATION
Raise your hands and declare:
“My family belongs to God. Jesus Christ is our foundation and the Holy Spirit is our ultimate Guide. We receive divine wisdom and discernment. We shall walk with the wise. We shall recognize trustworthy mentors. We shall reject destructive counsel. Every satanic voice assigned to mislead us is silenced. Every destructive association is broken. Every deceptive influence is exposed. Every power of confusion is destroyed. Every spirit of stubbornness is broken. We receive humility to learn. We receive courage to receive correction. We receive wisdom to make decisions. Our children shall have godly examples. Our young people shall receive wise guidance. Our adults shall receive appropriate counsel. Our family shall become a source of wisdom and encouragement to others. We shall not idolize human beings. We shall not be manipulated by people. We shall test every counsel against God’s Word. We shall walk in wisdom, discernment, humility and purpose. Every legitimate assignment God has given our family shall be strengthened by wise counsel and faithful action. We shall fulfil our legitimate purposes and become a blessing to our generation. In the name of Jesus, Amen.”
14. CONCLUSION
Father, we thank You because You are the source of all wisdom.
We commit every member of our family into Your hands.
Give us the wisdom to know when we need counsel.
Give us humility to receive instruction.
Give us discernment to recognize trustworthy people.
Give us courage to reject destructive influence.
Protect our children from harmful associations.
Protect our young people from manipulation.
Protect our adults from deceptive counsel.
Protect our entire household from relationships that would undermine legitimate purpose.
Raise godly mentors, teachers, counsellors, coaches and role models who will help our family members grow in wisdom, character, skill and responsibility.
Let every member of our household learn to test counsel against Your Word.
Let no human mentor take the place that belongs to Christ.
Let no relationship become an instrument of manipulation.
Let our family walk in healthy accountability, wisdom and mutual encouragement.
May parents become wise examples to their children.
May children grow into responsible adults.
May older family members become sources of wisdom for younger generations.
May every member of this household become both a learner and, in due season, a positive mentor to others.
EVERY WRONG VOICE SHALL LOSE ITS POWER. EVERY DESTRUCTIVE INFLUENCE SHALL BE EXPOSED. EVERY GODLY COUNSEL SHALL BE ESTABLISHED. EVERY LEGITIMATE DESTINY ASSIGNMENT SHALL RECEIVE WISE GUIDANCE. EVERY MEMBER OF OUR FAMILY SHALL WALK IN WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT. OUR HOUSEHOLD SHALL FULFIL ITS LEGITIMATE GOD-GIVEN PURPOSE.
In the name of Jesus, Amen.


